I am going through this right now. My wife and I are fairly young (29 and 30) and we split up over 3 years ago and I have not been with anyone since. Before her, I cannot remember a time I Wasn't with a girl. I am still really held up on her but the fact that we still see each other twice a week doesn't help. (We have a 3 1/2 year old daughter together) She has not been with anyone else since me either. I know she still loves me and I do her as well as the attraction still there. We ended up having sex about 6 months ago. With any girl in the past that I was crazy about, splitting up and finding someone else can be the best and fastest way to get over someone. Seeing that person regularly after the fact can make you hold on forever. It might be best for you to cut ties with your ex and try and move on. Maybe you just need to find the right woman. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. A lot of absence and finding someone else makes the heart not give a shit.
is it normal to go 4 years without sex?
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I am going through this right now. My wife and I are fairly young (29 and 30) and we split up over 3 years ago and I have not been with anyone since. Before her, I cannot remember a time I Wasn't with a girl. I am still really held up on her but the fact that we still see each other twice a week doesn't help. (We have a 3 1/2 year old daughter together) She has not been with anyone else since me either. I know she still loves me and I do her as well as the attraction still there. We ended up having sex about 6 months ago. With any girl in the past that I was crazy about, splitting up and finding someone else can be the best and fastest way to get over someone. Seeing that person regularly after the fact can make you hold on forever. It might be best for you to cut ties with your ex and try and move on. Maybe you just need to find the right woman. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. A lot of absence and finding someone else makes the heart not give a shit.