I know that's the logical solution..its almost like i don't wanna get over her..i def don't wanna lose the friendship and cant forget her.tried.distance, tried new ppl but just keep hurting myself causei can't shake these feelings.
Let me tell you, distance really is the only way to go. I completely understand the feeling of someone who you cared about and still want after that but have you had someone break up with you, remain friends for a while, then later have the guts to tell you all about some new guy and how great he is? There is nothing more that my friend could have done to rudely wake me up. I was angry but more angry at myself for being the type of person to make her feel that such a thing was okay.
Honestly, you'll probably never forget just like I won't but I think the best thing to do is accept that fact yet still move forward. It is INSANELY easy to remain in the state of old affection and woe is me but remember, your ex has more than likely moved on and isn't suffering like this so do you really want an ex to have such power over you? You'll be very happy again if you can do this, I know you can~
is it normal to go 4 years without sex?
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I know that's the logical solution..its almost like i don't wanna get over her..i def don't wanna lose the friendship and cant forget her.tried.distance, tried new ppl but just keep hurting myself causei can't shake these feelings.
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Let me tell you, distance really is the only way to go. I completely understand the feeling of someone who you cared about and still want after that but have you had someone break up with you, remain friends for a while, then later have the guts to tell you all about some new guy and how great he is? There is nothing more that my friend could have done to rudely wake me up. I was angry but more angry at myself for being the type of person to make her feel that such a thing was okay.
Honestly, you'll probably never forget just like I won't but I think the best thing to do is accept that fact yet still move forward. It is INSANELY easy to remain in the state of old affection and woe is me but remember, your ex has more than likely moved on and isn't suffering like this so do you really want an ex to have such power over you? You'll be very happy again if you can do this, I know you can~