Is it normal to give up your love for your bestfriend his happiness?

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  • I like your passion. Well, its hard for me to give advice in this situation since I don't know the guy and I don't know how deeply you have thought about your liking of him, but I would suggest you think very deeply to make sure he is really your love. Also, if he is not and never will be interested in you, then you will probably get hurt at some point so it is important that you realize this. And finally, if you can't openly talk to him about what you are feeling, then it probably isn't a love that will last.

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    • I did openly talk to him about this. He does know that I like him, he cherishes me like a friend would but he tries continuously to avoid talks such as these. I try my very best to be a good friend who understands. And yes you are right, this love isn't fit to last nor is it worth my time...But you know as I know, our feelings towards another cannot be controlled like a computer.I fell because he made me happy though i now suffer deep inside for his happiness. I have tried my very best to avoid him without losing him as a friend, and even 'till now I am struggling. But with time I know it'll be better and I'll soon move on. Thank you for your kind and sympathetic advice, your a good person and i hope that we could be good friends too.

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