I feel so sorry for you. It must feel so bad for you to be turned down/rejected/broken-hearted. But I really wish that you would reconsider if you really want to give up on relationships.
I know you feel really frustrated about being turned down, and it has affected your normal life/work. But at the end of the day, if you really give up on relationships, then the result would only the one - you know, which is rather depressing. On the contrary, if you keep trying, even though you heart may be ripped up from times to times, at least you still have chances.
One of the factors which make a long-last relationship so precious is that it's not easy to find. You may experience a lot of heartache during the process of finding love, but I believe it's just the cost and it's all worthwhile.
Maybe you should refresh yourself and renew your life first. Loving yourself is essential to loving someone. If you're confused about your work/life, how would you be able to start a relationship healthily?
It's actually a vicious cycle. When you're turned down, your career performance deteriorated and you became depressed, which left you disheartened/ less confident and made it harder for you to find the right partner. Maybe you should settle to work again and try to do things (your hobby?)that you enjoy to lighten up your life.
I believe that when you can finally overcome your depression and start to enjoy life/work again, you'd become a more attractive person and it'd be easier for you to find the right partner.
In my opinion, it's too early for you to give up. I know I'm not qualified to criticize you, and actually I'm not trying to. I just really wish that you can stay strong and keep trying.
Is it normal to give up on relationships?
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I feel so sorry for you. It must feel so bad for you to be turned down/rejected/broken-hearted. But I really wish that you would reconsider if you really want to give up on relationships.
I know you feel really frustrated about being turned down, and it has affected your normal life/work. But at the end of the day, if you really give up on relationships, then the result would only the one - you know, which is rather depressing. On the contrary, if you keep trying, even though you heart may be ripped up from times to times, at least you still have chances.
One of the factors which make a long-last relationship so precious is that it's not easy to find. You may experience a lot of heartache during the process of finding love, but I believe it's just the cost and it's all worthwhile.
Maybe you should refresh yourself and renew your life first. Loving yourself is essential to loving someone. If you're confused about your work/life, how would you be able to start a relationship healthily?
It's actually a vicious cycle. When you're turned down, your career performance deteriorated and you became depressed, which left you disheartened/ less confident and made it harder for you to find the right partner. Maybe you should settle to work again and try to do things (your hobby?)that you enjoy to lighten up your life.
I believe that when you can finally overcome your depression and start to enjoy life/work again, you'd become a more attractive person and it'd be easier for you to find the right partner.
In my opinion, it's too early for you to give up. I know I'm not qualified to criticize you, and actually I'm not trying to. I just really wish that you can stay strong and keep trying.
Good luck :)