Is it normal to give birthday cards to your older second cousin?
She is 18 years older than me and I have recently started giving her birthday cards that I made on her birthday May 29.
On December 27, 2016 (the day Carrie Fisher died), I asked my then-35-year-old cousin Nena, "Nena, do you remember that card I gave you?" and she said, "Yeah." Then I asked her, "Did you read it?" and she said, "Yeah." Then I asked, "Did you like it?" and she said, "Yeah, it was really nice. I still have it." So then I thought," Good to know."
I will forever cherish that memory for the rest of my life.