Is it normal to give a girl a hickey?

Like... post-college? I was doing foreplay with this girl and I do a lot of neck kissing/biting, she seemed not too into it and worried about getting a hickey. Should I ease up on that?

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89% Normal
Based on 44 votes (39 yes)
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  • bunnyhabit

    no girl likes purple and black marks on her body

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    • Arrissot

      You would be surprised

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  • jethro

    Yes. If she doesn't like it why would you persist in doing it?

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  • Your oral skills should be directed about 2 to 3 feet lower.
    Lay off the hickeys. They’re embarrassing on adults in every way possible.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    If she isn't into it, no, it's not normal.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Your title and final questions conflict. I answered Normal, in answer to your last question, ease up on the hickeys.

    No one older than 14 wants a hickey.

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    • babyhazel

      im 30 and i have @ least 4to5 jk

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    • So it's normal for it to happen on accident, but I should be more careful to prevent that from happening?

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      • nikkiclaire

        No, it doesn't happen on accident.

        Pay attention to the person you are with and what they like and don't like.

        Obviously most people would rather not have someone sucking on their neck causing bruises.

        If this gets you off, find someone who likes it.

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        • It's not that it gets me off to create a hickey, I just don't know how long it takes to cause a mark neck biting/kissing.

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          • nikkiclaire

            Not long but it's a deliberate technique.

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  • caitlyn6121

    I like them. As long as you're willing to work below the wait too and keep them off my neck and on my chest instead.

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  • Grit

    I am a man. A woman can put a hickey on me anywhere anytime.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    If she doesn't want it then she doesn't want it. She's expressed that clearly.

    Depends on the person though. I think it's really hot being branded, scandalous, although I'd wonder how to hide it for work until it disappears. I'd have to have it lower down where it can be covered.

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  • curious-bunny

    Am I the only adult here that likes getting them? Sure it's embarasing but it's like a symbol of his affection and being his, like yea it's nice

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    • babyhazel

      no i do 2 it shows ur taken

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      • curious-bunny

        Exactly! And being marked that you are taken is just wonderful

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        • babyhazel

          they keep all ppl honest

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  • curious-bunny

    If she doesn't want one don't give her one, my bf 40 loves giving them to me and I live getting them and I'm 20, so yea posy college id say its normal, havent been to collehe yet thoygh, camt afford it yet haha

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  • Boojum

    Hickeys are just as juvenile as ostentatious, prolonged, and very public displays of affection.

    Kids wear hickeys proudly because they prove they've made out with someone. No emotionally mature adult feels the need to do that, and if you feel the need to leave your mark on women you're intimate with, then I suggest you take a long look at why that is.

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