Where do you think the cinematic cliché of argument turned to passion comes from?
Sometimes an argument can be cathartic, if something has been brewing for a while but not talked about getting it out in the open can be a strange mix of anger, relief and attraction, occasional arguments are healthy it's when neither of you can be bothered to argue that you should be worried.
But arguing in a relationship is different to arguing with some guy/girl. I've noticed something similar once in 6th form. There was a friend of a friend who disagreed with me on everything from human rights down to films.
All of our disagreements were more friendly debates we enjoyed the intellectual challenge and always laughed about it after. One day though I slated her favorite band without realising they were, she really took against it and it turned into a full blown argument ( yet we were able to debate human rights calmly)
I remember that as she was shouting thinking to myself " why am I suddenly finding you so beatiful and how come I want to have sex with you right now"
IIN to get turned on when having arguments?
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Where do you think the cinematic cliché of argument turned to passion comes from?
Sometimes an argument can be cathartic, if something has been brewing for a while but not talked about getting it out in the open can be a strange mix of anger, relief and attraction, occasional arguments are healthy it's when neither of you can be bothered to argue that you should be worried.
But arguing in a relationship is different to arguing with some guy/girl. I've noticed something similar once in 6th form. There was a friend of a friend who disagreed with me on everything from human rights down to films.
All of our disagreements were more friendly debates we enjoyed the intellectual challenge and always laughed about it after. One day though I slated her favorite band without realising they were, she really took against it and it turned into a full blown argument ( yet we were able to debate human rights calmly)
I remember that as she was shouting thinking to myself " why am I suddenly finding you so beatiful and how come I want to have sex with you right now"