Is it normal to get turned on by being cheated on?

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I've had a lot of heartache in my life, ex-wife cheating on me, girlfriends cheating on me.
But as well as feeling sad and broken hearted, it turns me on to think of my ex wife or girlfreind fucking some other guy.
I used to live with a woman who cheated on me constantly and as hurt and upset as I was that she was cheating on me, it turned me on thinking of, mentally visualizing, her getting fucked by some other guy.

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    Out of curiosity, do you think you'd be equally excited in an open relationship or some description, or does the betrayal of trust actually adds something to it for you?

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    • Tommythecat.
      10 years ago

      Good question.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I will NEVER understand that sort thing as long as long as I live...NEVER.

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    • supaflyafro
      10 years ago

      if u say never then either u dont wanna understand or ur brain is too dumb to comprehend

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    • Poleman
      10 years ago

      Men enjoy dirty fantasies, such as eating cheese and crackers with their parents

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Mmm... that's my kinda thang!

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  • bihubby
    10 years ago

    My wife has had sex with abut 15 men in the last few years, Is it cheating if you watch? we have had a grate time.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    There's a thing for that. Find a girl and have her "cheat with your consent"

    Cheating is never acceptable!

    Inviting others to play on the other hand is hot.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Your X's sound like total sluts, can I get their emails.

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  • RedBluePug
    10 years ago

    Maybe it's not cheating you are turned on by maybe it's you're turned on just by having another guy skrew her. Maybe you could have a mutual agreement with her and another guy and watch them do it?

    It's not cheating if YOU agreed to it and have not been lied to.

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  • ???:-p
    10 years ago

    I would like to watch my girlfriend get fucked by another man thing it would be a right turn on!

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  • CreativeThinker
    10 years ago

    No you should be tuned on if she do it in front of you or share everything with you..

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I think it a common fetish. It called cuckolding.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    No it's not normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You have masochistic tendencies.

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  • ScooterNyne
    10 years ago

    It's a very interesting turn on. I don't completely understand it myself but I do know how you feel. I too have a certain turn on or fetish that causes me a great deal of emotional distress.

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  • Jessica6969
    10 years ago

    No it's not normal but I'll bang your wife for ya if you like it so much lmao. I'm really a 30y old male, is my user name normal lol. If your wife's not ugly I'd hit it for you!!! Lmao

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  • supaflyafro
    10 years ago

    i think you wanna cheat just as much as them

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  • LilyannaNothing
    10 years ago

    I actually have seen, around the internet, a lot of men that liked the idea of their women fucking other men behind their back

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Cheating is never a good thing imo.
    But maybe you should think about an open relationship?

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    No

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    How.. like i don't get it, and im glad i don't.
    I would kill everybody in this bitch, including her.

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  • Papakinky74
    10 years ago

    Its like mental porn... I often fantisize about my wife with other men and find it a huge turn on. She on the other hand is (fortunately) only into me

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    • ews3
      8 years ago

      Knowing that someone fancies my wife enough to fuck her would turn me on.
      Knowing that my wife's pussy had recently been used would also turn me on.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    Ye its normal for men with low self esteem and submissive tendencies.

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