Is it normal to get turned on by a 11 year old biting your arm?

I find this to be difficult because I understand the hard feelings against pedophilia, that our young are to be protected etc.

HOWEVER, with that said, I don't think one can control their emotions/attractions, pedophilia not being a exception...

These two feelings can become conflicting, and cause guilt..

With that said, I was at a friends house, and there was this girl that is about 12 years old. I put a arm lock on her, she said if I did it again she would bite me..

This kind of perked my interest, so I immediately put her in a arm lock again. She bit into my arm, twisting back and forth, her mouth giving me any type of sensation aroused

In matter of fact I am getting a little aroused now, though I don't think I could never go through with any desire. I cannot completely blame those that do, especially if it were consensual.. like if she was just curious and I allowed her to explore her curiosities...

Is It Normal?
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  • I'd normally be all over this one with supporting ideas, and what not, but since i don't feel free to express my opinions anymore, I'll leave you with the next paragraph.

    In the same manner that people look at butts, regardless of age, species, or orientation, there are some things that are generally human. (This was a topic awhile ago, where the poster was discussing his guilt over looking at his gf's younger sister. I made the point that a butt is a butt, and some people look. I mean honestly, If I ask "Have you ever seen a cat's anus" I'm pretty sure everyone that has ever been around a cat can say "yes." Humans are animals, and as animals we have natural curiosity about things, especially things like butts) I can amke the point about people sitting in one's lap also. If one is male, and another person/species gets in the male's lap, there is indeed a chance that the male will get an erection. Warmth + movement of the area is a pretty obvious thing. It might be a neighbors dog, it might be a little nephew. You get the idea.

    What seperate those random things from happening, with the rest of society, is the ability to control the "after" urge. just because you get hard, doesn't mean you are horny. Or would hump whatever is in your lap. Or grab the ass of whatever it is. The problems occur when you start answer "yes" to the urges...Would you start to hump that little nephew in your lap? Now you are starting to get into some more questionable actions.

    A bite is a bite. Most kids bite. Most animals bite. I'm not interested in pain, so anything biting me is usually a turn off. But in your case, let it be something as simple as just a bite, and let it go. It doesn't mean she likes you, or would consent to anything else. If she was openly flirting with you, asking you a bunch of questions, and seemingly getting jealous when you spend time with your friend, then maybe she would be interested. But in your case, she warned you, she bit you, and that was the end of it.

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  • That doesn't necessarily mean you're a pedophile; it just means you've got a biting fetish.

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  • My younger sister when she was 11 would turn me on sometimes just by walking by me. When I was 13 at the time, she loved the way I made her "feel funny" with my hands!

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  • I think I asked the girl that question because I knew she was becoming afraid that I wanted to hurt her the same way she was hurt before. I did get rock hard at the fact of her being so scared. I did put HER against me and felt her fear. I liked that feeling. I did grip her HARD but let her go after I made her shake and cry but never touched her. Wanted to hit her though. Sorry I let her go without beating on HER ass

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  • I NEVER acted on this but i had a roommate whose 4 or 5 year-old was I think sexually abused by her mother's former boyfriend. I was taking care of her one day. I was sitting on the bed and she came and stood in between my legs. I asked her if anyone had ever HURT her before. She said no but her body aid something else. She touched my leg with her small hands and got excited. Not because i wanted to HURT her but I have a feeling she was HURT. I was VERY aroused by the thought of her being hurt. I wanted to wrap her in my arms but i didn't because i was afraid i would if nothing else lay on top of HER small body and hold her tightly while pushing on her softness

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  • I don't think it is normal...

    & even if it is it is not normal to act on those urges! She isn't even done puberty yet...

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  • Yes it's normal, but don't act on it. I'm gonna pretty much agree 100% with Gelmurag (Although even if she was flirting and stuff I'd still suggest don't touch her)

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