Is it normal to get tired of someone you say you love?

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Well i am 19 yrs old and my girlfriend for three years are currently moving in with me in my Aunts house while we go to college. First me and her go to the same college and we graduated from the high school. So now it like i hate everything she does and i get frustrated when she talks to me and i feel as thou that isn't normal. I figured it would be easy but looks like i'm stressed out. so my question is is possible to get tired of someone you love?

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  • graphic_nature
    11 years ago | pl

    It's normal. When you started dating her you were much younger and both your hormones have changed since then. You have grown apart from her and thats not bad, you should have a chance to date around and find other people you're compatible with, especially since you're in a new environment with new people. It's too bad she is living with you and your Aunt because that will make breaking up with her much harder, but I think it's time to let her know how you feel.

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    • Why69icecreamman
      11 years ago | pl

      Thanks and i let her know how i feel but i only do it like if she make made or what not. But i think that is the problem as well i she tell her things when i have a clear head instead of being fired up.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    You're 19 and you've been with her for 3 years...

    So that means you started with her at 16.

    People don't stay the same, especially when you're still in your teens. This is why most people will tell you that you're too young to be moving in with someone.

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    • Why69icecreamman
      11 years ago | pl

      True because you haven't experience living by yourself so how can you live with someone else if you have experience it yourself. thank tha t help in many ways then one

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  • MissClaire
    11 years ago | pl

    Absolutely you can grow apart. People grow, their values/morals shape them depending on the atmosphere they spend their time within. How many times have you seen marriages slpit apart after 30 years or when the kids leave.....
    If you dont want to be with her it isnt fair to her or yourself. You both deserve more. Best of luck :)

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    • Why69icecreamman
      11 years ago | pl

      Thanks, you are so right thats exactly how i feel. i have to think about my future and i don't think its a good ideal to really just give over to something when i haven't experience life yet.

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      • MissClaire
        11 years ago | pl

        you are exactly correct as well - its normal to change your mind re: what you want from your partner a lot over a lifetime. Every relationship you have teaches you different things about yourself and allows you to grow as a person. Experience life and enjoy it :)

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        • Why69icecreamman
          11 years ago | pl

          my mother say that very thing and thank you cause taht hit home

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          • MissClaire
            11 years ago | pl

            Im glad I could help :)
            tho unsure how to take the 'my mom said the same thing' cos Im only 26 lol, Im flattered and also kinda feeling a bit old for my age. I like your mom btw - she is a smart women ;)

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