I know where your coming from man, for me it got so bad that when a girl actually liked me i wouldn't take advantage of it out of nervousness and i missed my chance. i never had anyone to teach me how to get a girl or even about sex, school only showed me the horrible diseases and why i shouldn't have it. i'm sorta piecing it together still (i'm currently 18, only ever had 1 gf). this is what i've gotten from trial and error, if she doesn't have a boyfriend try to invite her on a casual hangout, it's best to do something that peaks her/both of your interest, luckily for me we were both fans of anime. then just show her your good side. girls can make up there minds quickly, but they can also change quickly if they like what they see. most importantly DON'T TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT, girls will see right through that after a short period of time. be polite, every girl likes a gentleman. ask if she would like to hang out again afterwards. if she's interested she'll say yes with no hesitation, but if she says no she might already have something to do or is just not interested after a couple of more hangouts maybe ask her out to something less casual and more formal like dinner, if that goes well maybe ask her if she is interested in a relationship. now given i am not a ladies man, most of the time girls don't even come to me for conversation. and there are some girls that prefer having a BF/GF relationship but not have it be all lovey-dovey.
is it normal to get sad when I start to like someone?
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I know where your coming from man, for me it got so bad that when a girl actually liked me i wouldn't take advantage of it out of nervousness and i missed my chance. i never had anyone to teach me how to get a girl or even about sex, school only showed me the horrible diseases and why i shouldn't have it. i'm sorta piecing it together still (i'm currently 18, only ever had 1 gf). this is what i've gotten from trial and error, if she doesn't have a boyfriend try to invite her on a casual hangout, it's best to do something that peaks her/both of your interest, luckily for me we were both fans of anime. then just show her your good side. girls can make up there minds quickly, but they can also change quickly if they like what they see. most importantly DON'T TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT, girls will see right through that after a short period of time. be polite, every girl likes a gentleman. ask if she would like to hang out again afterwards. if she's interested she'll say yes with no hesitation, but if she says no she might already have something to do or is just not interested after a couple of more hangouts maybe ask her out to something less casual and more formal like dinner, if that goes well maybe ask her if she is interested in a relationship. now given i am not a ladies man, most of the time girls don't even come to me for conversation. and there are some girls that prefer having a BF/GF relationship but not have it be all lovey-dovey.