Is it normal to get remarried after divorce because

We got divorced because our daughter died when she was 4. She had leukemia. We both withdrew from one another and just fought often.

Our daughter died in 2014. We divorced in 2015.

Recently we started talking again. We havent talked since the divorce. It's been a few months and it's been great. Thinking about marrying again.

Is this normal

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Based on 15 votes (10 yes)
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  • CountessDouche

    Yeah, of course! Devestating loss like that can tear relationships apart and, although it will never go away, some distance from tragedy can allow you to appreciate the things you loved about one another.

    Hopefully you can find happiness after what you've gone through.

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  • Tealights

    Yeah. It's a normal break up and getting back together story, you could have simply just separated, that would have been WAY cheaper.

    Sorry about your daughter.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm sorry for your loss. Did ya'll try marriage counseling, and attending bereavement support groups at all?

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  • SKDM007

    that must be heartbreaking...

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  • Nikclaire

    Sorry about your daughter that must have been horrible and I could never imagine the pain.

    My thought on marriage tho is, if you can take a vow of "til death do us part", and break it once, it's probably best not to try again.

    Why not just commit to each other?

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    • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

      Tax breaks

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  • McBean

    I am a widower. It takes many years to grieve the loss of a child. While you and your ex know how to be happy in good times, it sounds like you are bad at mourning together. Proceed with caution - lots of it.

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  • Grunewald

    Echoing Rose... make sure you understand why you divorced and how you can do differently.

    Then get back together. It is so wholesome.

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  • leggs91200

    No problem with being a couple but don't rush into marriage again.

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  • brutus

    My advice would be to just remain friends and not remarry.

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  • Don't think it will work sorry

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