My boyfriend can be an angry drunk. One time the door was frozen and I was asleep due to working the next morn, well he woke me up to help him, oncebi was unable due to well it was middle of night and it was frozen shut, logic says wait till morn whe b it's warner anyways, he called me worthless and a cunt. That was the 4th time he's called me a cunt and the 1stvtime worthless. We don't even share the bed anymore, and when he asks why that's whstvi tell him. He says I need to move on cause he was drunk but the way I see it is how can I possibly move onif he's not willing to stop what's pushing us apart. Nor why should I from him saying somethinglike thatto me. He usually walks away annoyed at that point
That's terrible. A true lover should build you up, not knock you down. I know you may have emotional attachment to him by now and as hard as it is to do so, you should either confront him about it (give him an ultimatum "its me or the booze" or arrange a convention) OR you should break up with him. In your heart you know this is toxic behavior. He would stop if he truly loved you.
I know I will, I'm saving to build an rv, with him rent is super cheap without well I'll barely afford it, this way I can build my dream home progress my life and then I can finally leave him and find someone else
Surely there must be some other way. It sounds kinda like you using him which can't be good Karma. What if he breaks up with you? Abusive people don't take kindly if they think they're being used. I think it would serve you well to find a better roommate. What if he gets drunk, and hits you? If ever does that you need to call the cops, and leave regardless.
I know I will, I'm saving to build an rv, with him rent is super cheap without well I'll barely afford it, this way I can build my dream home progress my life and then I can finally leave him and find someone else
That sounds like a great plan! It's going to be a great adventure for you. I love rv living. I did it for a few months before I got married and it was some of the best times of my life.
Thank you! I'm working 2 full time jobs so I almost never see him any nore wichis wonderful and I get an extra 1400ish to put tight inti savings! Next week I'll get my first full check from them, I'm super excited for it. Why did you quit after getting married? I can't possibly imagine leaviubg it behind once I finally get into it
That's amazing! Do you know how long it will take you to save up? And will you travel around in it or stay in one place for work?
We did it together just before we got married. We always planned for it to be temporary and the money from selling it paid for our flights back home to the UK and then a bit towards the wedding (huge family pressure to get married in the UK... We would have just happily eloped lol). Also we were both baby crazy by then and started procreating almost straight after the wedding. I know you can do the RV lifestyle with kids but I just wasn't feeling it. The thought of having a baby without my own washing machine and space for a proper nursery just didn't appeal to me. Fair play to the ones that do it though, I'm still jealous of their freedom.
According to the bank calculator I'm switching to if I put 1,000 away every month I'll be there in 2.6 years, but that's cost if purchase transport and modifying so not to bad. I'm also looking at one from plan b supply as I love military trucks. It would cost a bit more and be a but tighter on space but I would be much more in koive woth my home and it would last way longer. I'll be doing a bit of both actually. The school I want to go to is 8 months long and then travel to wherever they help me find work and so I'll be sitting awhile mainly but once I get higher up the chain I'm sure I'll do alpot of moving around.
Mm i fully understand! I would hate having kids in one. Yea the washer machine part bugs me 2, that's why I intend on using a compost toilet so I can just have a big ass fresh and graywater tank and buy a washer/dryer 2 in one thing to have with, it's small and uses5 gallons a load but I don't care will be worth not using a laundry Matt on the regular!
But hey happy to hear it's all working out! Think youll ever go back to the road?
Dream home? To build an RV and live in a trailer park. Jeez I bet mum is proud.
I don't feel sorry for you at all. Actually think you deserve it! I mean you admit to only being with him for money, in other words.. If you were a real female you would be a whore. I guess you are just a drama queen, scamming fag... No offence.
Dream home I can actually get, if I had the money I would adore owning a small island and a sea plane. But since that's highly unlikely a rv that can take me anywhere so I'm not tied down in one spot is the preference a d btw my set up won't be for parks. I'm sure I'll stay in a few at times but I have no interest in them, once i get my training in I'll live along the water somewere. And I have openly admitted I want to whore on here. Besides I still love him he's just pushed me away cause of his drinking, his sober dickishways I can handle but not both of them. He's gone to far
Trust me I Will! I don't even give a crap if he strikes me I will report that. I have 2 grand saved up so more than enough to get back home quickly and my friend said she would love to have me crash in her spareroom 2hile I look for a place. Plus i would just sell most my shit yo the local pawn while he's at the station or work wich would get me a little bit. So I would be ok
IIN to get relly angry at your wife and kids when drunk?
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My boyfriend can be an angry drunk. One time the door was frozen and I was asleep due to working the next morn, well he woke me up to help him, oncebi was unable due to well it was middle of night and it was frozen shut, logic says wait till morn whe b it's warner anyways, he called me worthless and a cunt. That was the 4th time he's called me a cunt and the 1stvtime worthless. We don't even share the bed anymore, and when he asks why that's whstvi tell him. He says I need to move on cause he was drunk but the way I see it is how can I possibly move onif he's not willing to stop what's pushing us apart. Nor why should I from him saying somethinglike thatto me. He usually walks away annoyed at that point
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That's terrible. A true lover should build you up, not knock you down. I know you may have emotional attachment to him by now and as hard as it is to do so, you should either confront him about it (give him an ultimatum "its me or the booze" or arrange a convention) OR you should break up with him. In your heart you know this is toxic behavior. He would stop if he truly loved you.
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I know I will, I'm saving to build an rv, with him rent is super cheap without well I'll barely afford it, this way I can build my dream home progress my life and then I can finally leave him and find someone else
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Surely there must be some other way. It sounds kinda like you using him which can't be good Karma. What if he breaks up with you? Abusive people don't take kindly if they think they're being used. I think it would serve you well to find a better roommate. What if he gets drunk, and hits you? If ever does that you need to call the cops, and leave regardless.
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It's not good karma no, I'm sure this will bite me in the ass in the future. I've made my bed and it's time I sleep in it.
I thought you were a god fearing lady? Don't you guys think that trans, gay, lez, bla bla, are all abominations.
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Domestic violence is messed up regardless.
You can do better bunny. Kick that asshole out and live solo for a while. Someone better will come along
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That sounds like a great plan! It's going to be a great adventure for you. I love rv living. I did it for a few months before I got married and it was some of the best times of my life.
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Thank you! I'm working 2 full time jobs so I almost never see him any nore wichis wonderful and I get an extra 1400ish to put tight inti savings! Next week I'll get my first full check from them, I'm super excited for it. Why did you quit after getting married? I can't possibly imagine leaviubg it behind once I finally get into it
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That's amazing! Do you know how long it will take you to save up? And will you travel around in it or stay in one place for work?
We did it together just before we got married. We always planned for it to be temporary and the money from selling it paid for our flights back home to the UK and then a bit towards the wedding (huge family pressure to get married in the UK... We would have just happily eloped lol). Also we were both baby crazy by then and started procreating almost straight after the wedding. I know you can do the RV lifestyle with kids but I just wasn't feeling it. The thought of having a baby without my own washing machine and space for a proper nursery just didn't appeal to me. Fair play to the ones that do it though, I'm still jealous of their freedom.
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According to the bank calculator I'm switching to if I put 1,000 away every month I'll be there in 2.6 years, but that's cost if purchase transport and modifying so not to bad. I'm also looking at one from plan b supply as I love military trucks. It would cost a bit more and be a but tighter on space but I would be much more in koive woth my home and it would last way longer. I'll be doing a bit of both actually. The school I want to go to is 8 months long and then travel to wherever they help me find work and so I'll be sitting awhile mainly but once I get higher up the chain I'm sure I'll do alpot of moving around.
Mm i fully understand! I would hate having kids in one. Yea the washer machine part bugs me 2, that's why I intend on using a compost toilet so I can just have a big ass fresh and graywater tank and buy a washer/dryer 2 in one thing to have with, it's small and uses5 gallons a load but I don't care will be worth not using a laundry Matt on the regular!
But hey happy to hear it's all working out! Think youll ever go back to the road?
Dream home? To build an RV and live in a trailer park. Jeez I bet mum is proud.
I don't feel sorry for you at all. Actually think you deserve it! I mean you admit to only being with him for money, in other words.. If you were a real female you would be a whore. I guess you are just a drama queen, scamming fag... No offence.
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Dream home I can actually get, if I had the money I would adore owning a small island and a sea plane. But since that's highly unlikely a rv that can take me anywhere so I'm not tied down in one spot is the preference a d btw my set up won't be for parks. I'm sure I'll stay in a few at times but I have no interest in them, once i get my training in I'll live along the water somewere. And I have openly admitted I want to whore on here. Besides I still love him he's just pushed me away cause of his drinking, his sober dickishways I can handle but not both of them. He's gone to far
If he says you need to move on, it means he wants you to break up with him. Otherwise he'd have said "get over it" or something to that effect.
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I dont know about that, but maybe
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Be careful. If he hits you call the cops, press charges and leave his ass. You need to start working on an escape plan pronto!
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Trust me I Will! I don't even give a crap if he strikes me I will report that. I have 2 grand saved up so more than enough to get back home quickly and my friend said she would love to have me crash in her spareroom 2hile I look for a place. Plus i would just sell most my shit yo the local pawn while he's at the station or work wich would get me a little bit. So I would be ok
Why are you still with him?
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Can't afford to live by myself and the location is very solid, I work 2 full time jobs now so I barely so him though
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when are you starting your escort service?
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When I'm single and moved on from my current situation, probably while I'm at school building a lufe for mysekf
I don't think she mentioned anything about an escort service, dude.
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Other posts I have sorta brought up I want to escort
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Oh, okay.