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Every time I'm around guys, even ones I've known forever or don't find attractive, I always get shy and end up not talking much. None of my friends seem to have this problem, it seems like it's just me. Is it normal to get really shy around guys?
It's normal but i still think you should try to over come it. I was shy too untill i realized that there is no person that is better than me (not saying im better than everyone else lol)- everytime i talk it feels so much better, not forced like it used to when i cared too much of what the other person might think.
ME TOO! I'm terrible with guys and i hate it! I just try to relax but then I over think and think too much about trying to relax and then by the time iv realised iv been thinking too much I realise that I haven't talked at all and now look like an idiot.
I think its normal to be shy but if it turns into too much of a problem then you should ask some of you're friends for advice or someone you want to talk too and maybe make a plan to hang out with some guy mates and plan with your girl friend different conversation topics and maybe they could start the convo and you add little comments, if your really screwed just smile and when everyone laughs copy them but try not to look like an idiot because then you might not have any friends.
just go with the flow...force ur self to talk or make comments when someones talking..and then ull realise that u ur less shy n relaxed..u just need to relax and think that its normal to talk, comment, laugh and socialize with people especially guys..just be ur self and everything will be good
i think ur shy becuz u think u have more flaws than guys normally do so ur afraid to fuck up. we all have our flaws but i think the person who should be shy is the same person who tells other ppl about their life and not knowing anything or not much about the other person's life