Is it normal to get out of the mood after i have an orgasm?

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When I have an orgasm, whether it's by myself or with someone, I get out of the mood. Although only when I have an orgasm from clit stimulation, I'm guessing because it's so much stronger. Is this normal? I know tons of girls have many orgasms this way over and over again. First hand (I'm bi) and through porn. My boyfriend and I have been getting into bondage recently, and he loves to give me orgasms that way because he can tell I like it way better, but I find myself faking several orgasms (Something I've never had to do before with my current boyfriend) before I actually let myself cum because I don't want it to end too quickly. Is there any way I can have an orgasm and still keep going??? This is soooo frustrating!!!! :(

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  • yume.nightfire27
    12 years ago

    I know it's bad to fake it, but I feel so bad when I do or when I don't. My boyfriend was a virgin when we met (something he hadn't told me until we were dating for almost 6 months) and because I orgasm so quickly and often through vaginal sex, he thinks he's doing something wrong when I don't. I've tried explaining that it just happens that way sometimes, but he doesn't seem to really be convinced.....

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    Don't fake it, you'll only both lose out on the pleasure. Talk to your bf and let him know that your orgasm has to be the 'end result' not part of the build up. I've known of women who can only orgasm once, I'm delighted to say I'm not one of them, I can keep going as long as I and/or my partner has the energy for. I think 8 in one session was my personal record lol ;)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    i too disagree with faking an orgasm.

    if you want it to last longer just tell him.

    if you're going to be a liar in bed however... meh. frankly he deserves someone who's honest

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    12 years ago

    My girlfriend can't have multiple orgasms at the same time either. It even takes some time for her to reach a single orgasm, 45 minutes for a quickie and much longer for a night of sex. I have only dated a few girls in the past that tend to orgasm multiply, I think you are normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You shouldn't fake it no matter what. Some women can't have orgasms in a row, I know I can't, I just get irritated and sore if I keep trying.

    Just enjoy what you have, stressing about it will make it more difficult either way.

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