Is it normal to get offended when a friend ignores a text or call

Is it normal that I get really upset when somebody doesn't respond to my text message or phone call? I mean I have friends who I know are always texting or on their phones so if I text them and get no response I feel dissed. Same feeling when I write on somebody's Facebook wall and they don't respond at all. I usually don't mention it to other people because it is a petty thing to fight over and I don't want to seem whiny but does anybody else feel this way or has anybody ever experienced when another person didn't respond to one fo your messages? I always respond to text messages and wall posts (unless the end of a conversation is implied) even if I don't like the person. It isn't hard people!

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  • It's worse when you write a paragraph and get back "lol" and that's it

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  • Normal, I ignore my bff's text and calls sometimes. I love him to death but sometimes I just don't feel like talking. It's simple, some people just don't feel like talking some times.

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  • It happens to me sometimes and its really anoying. Your right its not that hard to respond.

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  • I hate when someone doesn't reply to a facebook message when you can actually SEE they are online/writing on other people's walls. I try not to worry too much though, or else I will seem over-sensitive :P Try not to think about it.

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  • haha I agree that's the worst! When you are telling a funny story and the only thing the person can say in response is "lol" as if they can't comment on it at all? Even a "hahahah" is much more personal than an "lol"

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  • Yeah I find it aggrivating as well because it's true, they probably can text or call back yet they don't or take forever. But that's one of the many reasons people suck :-)

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  • somewhat normal but try not to as most people ignore stuff when they are in to bad a mood to deal with anything

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  • Yes it is normal, right now one of my friends is ignoring my messages, it says she has read it but she never replys. I get a bit offended because my other friends say that she is talking to her, but I don't let it worry me.

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  • I hate that. Makes me feel like shit.
    BUT!!! Life goes on.

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  • i think its definatly normal! i know exactly where your coming from.. i have some friends that i adore and they tell me the same thing back but ill text them and they just dont reply back! it really makes me angry because i dont see what the problem is in replying to a simple message? definitely not hard and if they are a FRIEND Then why on earth is there even a question to reply? JUST DO IT. simple.

    and then some people are just selfish and don't think it hurts you...

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  • + calm down.

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  • I think it's normal to ignore texts/calls etc! I do it all the time. I mean, that's why there is the option to reply/pick up a call or text - so you don't always have to. It's a basic right of a person not to bother with everyone, chillax! >:D

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  • Get a life.

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