Is it normal to get no enjoyment out sex

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I'm 18. I have a very healthy sex drive. I mastubate quite a bit and because of that I feel like I know my body really well and I know exactly what I like and dislike. I have a boyfriend and I really enjoy foreplay but when it comes down to actual sex I get no pleasure out of it. I like the emotional side of it but I just don't enjoy it physically. I know it's rare to orgasm with just penetration alone and with no clitorous stimulation and i'm not naive in thinking this is going to happen but I get no pleasure at all from sex! Before you say anything it's nothing my boyfriend or I are doing wrong neither is it something physiological I am 100% sure this is a physical problem with my vagina. Even having just a finger inside me does nothing. I get pleasure from everything else clitorous/breasts/kissing ect, everything apart from being penetrated! Has anybody heard of this and could maybe offer some advice?

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I'm pretty much am the same way but I do love to please my bf. He'll usually get me off by rubbing my clit either before or after sex so it all works out. Don't listen to Alison...I've been this way before a vibrator or even before I started masturbating.

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    • TheBalance
      12 years ago

      How do you know it had no effect before you started masturbating? lol. sorry

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      • lc1988
        12 years ago

        umm no orgasm from sex so uuuh yeah

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    I read an article some time ago about this same subject only it was about how women can become addicted to their vibrators and no mortal man can pleasure them. I don't think this is so strange.

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