My boyfriend gets like this and I hate it. We don't live together so it's like everytine we hang out we do stuff no matter how tired we are or I am and it's a pain... He never leaves me alone if we don't or he's just frustrated and acts anoying. It's getting to the breaking point and I really don't understand why sex and stuff is so important. It might be more of a guy thing or I'm just weird
It sounds like he has a higher sex drive than you - he needs to be sexually satisfied more regularly than you do to feel fulfilled. This can be a problem in a relationship if the difference is too great.
You need to discuss with him how you feel - explain how he has to respect your wishes, and that he shouldn't treat you badly because he's sexually frustrated, but that you understand and sympathise. Give each other an idea of how often, in an ideal world, you'd be having sex, and compare his number to yours. If it's too much of a problem i.e. what he wants and what you want don't match, then you might not be right for each other - you both might be happier with someone else.
I'm pretty sure there is a huge difference. Once or twice a week is fine for me but he wants like 4. One time we went 5 days without doing stuff and he's like omg yea I can't do that. He acts totally different and idk saying that stuff puts pressure on me and I told him and he said he's working on it but it's still in the back of my mind and we still do stuff when I rather not
Is it normal to get mad because I haven't had sex in a long time?
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I never understood the whole "sexual frustration" thing.
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What do you mean? What don't you get?
My boyfriend gets like this and I hate it. We don't live together so it's like everytine we hang out we do stuff no matter how tired we are or I am and it's a pain... He never leaves me alone if we don't or he's just frustrated and acts anoying. It's getting to the breaking point and I really don't understand why sex and stuff is so important. It might be more of a guy thing or I'm just weird
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It's a guy thing. Your guy may be obnoxious, but he sounds like the rest of us. We get frustrated and that makes us angry.
Sorry. True.
It sounds like he has a higher sex drive than you - he needs to be sexually satisfied more regularly than you do to feel fulfilled. This can be a problem in a relationship if the difference is too great.
You need to discuss with him how you feel - explain how he has to respect your wishes, and that he shouldn't treat you badly because he's sexually frustrated, but that you understand and sympathise. Give each other an idea of how often, in an ideal world, you'd be having sex, and compare his number to yours. If it's too much of a problem i.e. what he wants and what you want don't match, then you might not be right for each other - you both might be happier with someone else.
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I'm pretty sure there is a huge difference. Once or twice a week is fine for me but he wants like 4. One time we went 5 days without doing stuff and he's like omg yea I can't do that. He acts totally different and idk saying that stuff puts pressure on me and I told him and he said he's working on it but it's still in the back of my mind and we still do stuff when I rather not