Is it normal to get mad because i haven't had sex in a long time?

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I'm 23 and I haven't had sex in 4 years! All the girls i've met have turn out to be that word that starts with a B. I'm one angry black man at times. Need advice. Also when I try to go out with friends it never works out. Something always comes up and it makes me angry when I'm in a good mood to go out to a bar and no one can go with me. It really pisses me off! I often sit behind my computer and try to meet girls online and even that doesn't go well at times...

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  • Moonbow
    10 years ago | pl

    So all the girls you've dated are bitches and no one wants to "go out" with you? When everyone else is the problem, it's time for a little self-evaluation.

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  • disthing
    10 years ago | pl

    "All the girls i've met have turn out to be that word that starts with a B"

    Blow-up dolls?

    Bisexuals?

    Bumberclots?

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      Yea Mon, deem bumbahclots beechs be all day harshing

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      • disthing
        10 years ago

        Seen blud. Only ting vex me more den Babylon be dem sistren, source of boderation. Cho.

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        • shuggy-chan
          10 years ago

          Chill Mon, I got da goodaz ting foya. Ya just need day Cheddar and we be fulljoy

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          • 8-Evil-Waffles
            10 years ago

            My IQ got sliced in half reading that...

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  • MisterDam
    10 years ago

    Have you tried inviting your chick friends out with you? They can help you score dates! Women will come up & be like "aaawwwe" while your chicks go "peep peep peep"

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    The problem is that you're so damn pissed all the time. Calm down and maybe you'll be a more pleasant person.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    All i know is that it's amazing how my mood changes after a good pounding.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I never understood the whole "sexual frustration" thing.

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    • disthing
      10 years ago

      What do you mean? What don't you get?

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    • confusion123
      10 years ago

      My boyfriend gets like this and I hate it. We don't live together so it's like everytine we hang out we do stuff no matter how tired we are or I am and it's a pain... He never leaves me alone if we don't or he's just frustrated and acts anoying. It's getting to the breaking point and I really don't understand why sex and stuff is so important. It might be more of a guy thing or I'm just weird

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      • Sacron1111
        10 years ago

        It's a guy thing. Your guy may be obnoxious, but he sounds like the rest of us. We get frustrated and that makes us angry.
        Sorry. True.

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      • disthing
        10 years ago

        It sounds like he has a higher sex drive than you - he needs to be sexually satisfied more regularly than you do to feel fulfilled. This can be a problem in a relationship if the difference is too great.

        You need to discuss with him how you feel - explain how he has to respect your wishes, and that he shouldn't treat you badly because he's sexually frustrated, but that you understand and sympathise. Give each other an idea of how often, in an ideal world, you'd be having sex, and compare his number to yours. If it's too much of a problem i.e. what he wants and what you want don't match, then you might not be right for each other - you both might be happier with someone else.

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        • confusion123
          10 years ago

          I'm pretty sure there is a huge difference. Once or twice a week is fine for me but he wants like 4. One time we went 5 days without doing stuff and he's like omg yea I can't do that. He acts totally different and idk saying that stuff puts pressure on me and I told him and he said he's working on it but it's still in the back of my mind and we still do stuff when I rather not

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    have u tried meeting guys ?

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    • hornytongue
      10 years ago

      yea guys are great lovers

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Frustration?

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  • kirsten101
    8 years ago

    The solution is in your mirror.

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  • YouKnowWho
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you've been wasting a lot of your time dwelling on your anger or trying to find sex to get rid of it. See, you can't let such an animalistic urge take charge of your life, take this as an opportunity to practice abstinence and maybe one day you'll how much better your life is with no sex.

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  • curious_cat
    10 years ago

    Two words.

    Sexual frustration.

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  • Chaosmuffin
    10 years ago

    Travel abroad, most girls in the USA are the b-words.
    (I'm assuming you live in the USA because it's true about most of them being a b.)

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Normal. If I can't have sex 3 times a day I get mad too.

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  • Sacron1111
    10 years ago

    Well, you may be having bad luck. Unlikely.
    You may be coming on so strong with sex need the girls turn-off and (to you) act bitchy.
    Also, in bars, if you're getting loaded before you talk a girl up she's gonna be gone.
    Try something simple. Change your clothes to conservative and act like you're happy and shy. Really get into it. See if that act changes your behavior enough to get you positive results. You could be surprised.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Black men talk themselves up, but we all know that women go for white guys far more often.

    Racist AND true, fuck yeah!

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  • IM1RU12
    10 years ago

    It took me a long time to find the right lady.... NEVER GIVE UP.!!!!!

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  • kkisawesome
    10 years ago

    Maybe u should change the way u look or just masterbate

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    Going to the bar isn't some magic ticket to finding a sex partner, you know...

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    I didn't know Italians were racist.

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  • Seustewart
    10 years ago

    Maybe YOU are the problem. Just read what you've written as if somebody else wrote it.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    Go FAP!

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  • Ibelievethis
    10 years ago

    Frustration is totally normal. A sex is a basic instinct. I can't go more than a week without it or I'd be like a caged animal. I couldn't be in a relationship as I'd be too demanding. x

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  • Vato
    10 years ago

    That sucks! I'd be pist also. You have to stop being picky. Find a slut or a chubby redhead for now to release the frustration. Stop looking at hot girls online also. Only rich athletic dudes get those.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    It is normal mate. I get sort of angry when i don't have sex for a week. No clue how you hold out for 4 years.
    Keep looking, you'll find that dream girl... eventually.

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  • westoptic
    10 years ago

    Yes. Sexual frustration is a pain in the ass.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Normal to be frustrated, it sucks when your friends are always busy when you're free and I understand sometimes your hand just doesn't cut it. Just keep trying, you're probably more likely to get a girls number at a bar if you don't have your friends with you anyway, too many guys can be intimidating for girls so they cluster together so you can't talk to them :)

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  • germany18
    10 years ago

    Yeah it's normal... I start getting mad after 4 days without sex let alone 4 years!

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    • hornytongue
      10 years ago

      why don't u just jerk-off until u find yourself a girl

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  • Masteryi
    10 years ago

    Dude, hang on, never give up!
    You'll meet a good girl soon!

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  • Apple_guy
    10 years ago

    Somebody post your thoughts!!!!!
    I'm on the same boat with this guy!! (Not literally on a boat lol)

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Chill out and stop complaining about it. We have starving people in this world. I am sure they are in more need. Go to Nevada and buy a hooker.

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