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Some of my girl friends complain to me about their "fatness". I tell em theyre not fat. They dont listen and go on and on. It annoys me that theyre complaining to someone fatter, when theyre skinny. It's like a slap in the face.
It's not normal-normal people join in the self hating.
I deal with it a lot-my gym class is composed of another half dozen really skinny (we're talking size 0, 2 here) athletic girls-and I feel awfully out of place in my size 4/6 pants. Then they go on about their disgustingly pale legs-I am Irish, they know this.
I still haven't figured out if they're malicious or stupid.
I had a friend who was...chubby, and my skinny friends would call themselves fat to make her feel bad. I hope thats not what they're doing.
And there's nothing more annoying then skinny girls calling themselves fat, thats f*cking ridiculous...
Always makes me feel insecure if it's a size 2 or 4 girl complaining she's fat, because I'm size 6/8, and I feel like a whale next to them. They just do it for attention and to get compliments and flattery.
"Fat" is a relative term. It has no absolute definition with a weight range. The term fat means something to one person and another for the next. Girls can be 110bs and still think they are fat, bc they are their own worst critic and they may see things you do not. You are the foreigner looking in on them. Of course you dont see it, you were not meant to. As far as thinking that the group of girls say they are fat soley to out the girl who is bigger than them, preposterous, it is called "insecurities." Let me guess, the girls in question are in high school? You'll grow out of it naturally or forced to, either way, the world doesn't cater to such petty bs. Find what makes you shine and stand tall... no one can knock you down when you love yourself. The End.
Yes! I find it extremely annoying. Cause first off you gave a compliment that they ignore then it feels like they are poking at all the issues you see in your body, or because they say it that makes you think about your body negatively. It drives me nuts.
I hate it too! Girls r stupid... I'm a girl haha but I still think that's true
I hate when anyone under size 8/10 complains because under that isn't fat!! It's not. You may have fat on you but you are ment to have some fat on you its healthy to have a little fat! I don't like how people try to find negative in something that there is no negative be happy with your body jeez.
sorta...i mean yes, it's annoying. but who knows, maybe they really need the "compliment" to feel good about themselves...but yeah, its mostly kind of pathetic in a way.
And maybe if you cared about your own body slightly as much as they care about theirs, you wouldn't be the fatass on IIN complaining about your skinny friends complaining that they're too fat.
The reason y you're annoyed is because you are insecure about your own weight
I'm a girl and I do that all the time and guys tell me I'm not fat, but I want to hear it from guys I'm not fat so it makes me feel good
Sorry their blunt honesty hurts you. Stop being a petty little bitch about it though!