"! I believe that if we don't allow children to have some interaction in the adult world how will they learn how to socialise with adults." This is VERY true. But, you still don't get it, do you? This is HER FRIEND'S big day. It's not her responsibility to make sure her friend's child is getting socialization experience.
Thankyou for your reply. While yes you're right it is not her friends responsibility to make sure that her friends baby gets social interaction. However by the same token your loyalty always lies with your children.
It's not that I "don't get it". It's just that my views still stand. x
I will not disagree with that one bit. When you are a parent, your first priority has to be your child. I still believe she is being entitled to keep insisting that her child be included. For all we know, there could be other people who want to bring THEIR kids to the wedding, too. It wouldn't be fair to invite one person's kid without inviting the others. So, in the end, it's the mother's responsibility to find other options: find a family member to babysit for the night if she REALLY wants to go, or stay home with her baby. Both are valid options, unless she has no family members or something.
I know 1 thing I would not lower myself to keep asking if I could bring my baby. My attitude would be "Stick your wedding invitation , where the sun doesn't shine. xx
Is it normal to get angry because my baby can't go to a wedding?
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"! I believe that if we don't allow children to have some interaction in the adult world how will they learn how to socialise with adults." This is VERY true. But, you still don't get it, do you? This is HER FRIEND'S big day. It's not her responsibility to make sure her friend's child is getting socialization experience.
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Thankyou for your reply. While yes you're right it is not her friends responsibility to make sure that her friends baby gets social interaction. However by the same token your loyalty always lies with your children.
It's not that I "don't get it". It's just that my views still stand. x
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I will not disagree with that one bit. When you are a parent, your first priority has to be your child. I still believe she is being entitled to keep insisting that her child be included. For all we know, there could be other people who want to bring THEIR kids to the wedding, too. It wouldn't be fair to invite one person's kid without inviting the others. So, in the end, it's the mother's responsibility to find other options: find a family member to babysit for the night if she REALLY wants to go, or stay home with her baby. Both are valid options, unless she has no family members or something.
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I want to be your friend.
Thank you for your reply.
I know 1 thing I would not lower myself to keep asking if I could bring my baby. My attitude would be "Stick your wedding invitation , where the sun doesn't shine. xx