I guess you're saying that for this bride a wedding that is an all-quiet-on-the-set kodak production is more important than communing with friends and family (with children). Bridezilla is the name of the game these days but I don't think it makes those whose feelings she's trampled selfish.
Why are there people on here bashing the bride for not allowing kids to HER OWN WEDDING? It's one. night. She's not asking the lady to neglect her kid for a week. People want their wedding to be perfect. It's a normal thing. It's NOT to much to ask that a wedding be baby-free.
This is one reason I hate modern weddings. They are commercial photo ops for selfish queen-of-the-day women. They are not about connections with family, friends and community.
No. The mother of a new-born is not acting "entitled" for simple asking to bring her child to - of all things - her best friend's wedding. The bride is entitled to say no but having done so, shows little regard for friendship or children.
Look. Some people don't like children, believe it or not. We tolerate them, of course, but you don't have the right to bash this woman for choosing to not invite children to HER MOTHERFUCKING WEDDING. Seriously, I don't know why people just don't get it.
And, yes. I DO think she's acting entitled. It's not entitlement to ask once or twice, or shit, even 3 times is ok. It IS entitled behaviour to continue to insist that your child be invited, even though her friend has (hopefully) politely told her that she doesn't want the child to be included. Should she let someone bring their pet if they keep insisting? Should she allow a child molesting relative to attend if they kept insisting? After all, this IS all about connections with friends and family, right?
Is it normal to get angry because my baby can't go to a wedding?
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I guess you're saying that for this bride a wedding that is an all-quiet-on-the-set kodak production is more important than communing with friends and family (with children). Bridezilla is the name of the game these days but I don't think it makes those whose feelings she's trampled selfish.
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Why are there people on here bashing the bride for not allowing kids to HER OWN WEDDING? It's one. night. She's not asking the lady to neglect her kid for a week. People want their wedding to be perfect. It's a normal thing. It's NOT to much to ask that a wedding be baby-free.
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This is one reason I hate modern weddings. They are commercial photo ops for selfish queen-of-the-day women. They are not about connections with family, friends and community.
No. The mother of a new-born is not acting "entitled" for simple asking to bring her child to - of all things - her best friend's wedding. The bride is entitled to say no but having done so, shows little regard for friendship or children.
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Look. Some people don't like children, believe it or not. We tolerate them, of course, but you don't have the right to bash this woman for choosing to not invite children to HER MOTHERFUCKING WEDDING. Seriously, I don't know why people just don't get it.
I hate screaming babies and if i decide to get married to one lucky fucker i wont allow children either.
And, yes. I DO think she's acting entitled. It's not entitlement to ask once or twice, or shit, even 3 times is ok. It IS entitled behaviour to continue to insist that your child be invited, even though her friend has (hopefully) politely told her that she doesn't want the child to be included. Should she let someone bring their pet if they keep insisting? Should she allow a child molesting relative to attend if they kept insisting? After all, this IS all about connections with friends and family, right?
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Gee - relax. Of course it is not alright for her to keep insisting.