Is it normal to get a sexual thrill out of your enemy's pain?

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Well, this has been going on now for about a few months.A guy in my class at college has been being a complete dick to everyone here! Even the teachers! So I've grown to despise and hate him with every fiber of my being... So it would make since that when he gets slapped or told off or angered that I should get a smile out of it, right? But the strange thing is that it doesn't stop there... I get really turned on and happy in a sexual way which I don't think is normal. But I'm not sure so.. If anyone knows if this is normal or not, please tell me. Thanks!~

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    this sounds like u might have abuse in your past. talk to a counselor if possible. this is not a healthy means of sexual gratification and it could lead to unhappiness.

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    • GothicLolita6
      12 years ago

      In all honesty, that is a load of shit. Abuse doesn't lead to sadism. It leads to situational pedophiles and rapists. I'm neither. I just enjoy seeing the bastard suffer.

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      • pixie_dust
        12 years ago

        ok then I guess ur just evil.

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  • heather49
    12 years ago

    I think that, if it is not common, at least you are not the only one :P

    I kinda had that feeling too for one guy. I enjoyed when he was suffering, and would get kind of aroused with it, though I didn't really want to have sex with him, I really hated him.

    I think it is not common to happen, because on the most cases hate ends up with just hate. I truely hate quite a few people, but it just happend with that guy. Why?
    Well, I guess I can say that I enjoyed some things in him, and so the hate I felt wasn't followed so much by ignoring him. (Not liking him, true hate)

    And so, I guess it goes like:
    (liking some things in him/not compleetly ignoring him) + (hating him) + (being pervert) = (getting aroused by him suffering/treated badly)

    It's ok, I think ^ ^
    (Probably I don't I understand it that well too)

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    • GothicLolita6
      12 years ago

      Lol that sounds about right. :3

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  • urgburg
    13 years ago

    you want to have hatesex with him.

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  • toxicbear
    13 years ago

    Huh?

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