Heh, I'm not a guy so I don't know about the boner part. :P
I can say that I do find myself fascinated by the 'dark side' of people too, but I do try very hard to keep one foot firmly grounded in reality since its so easy for our own psyches to get out of control if we're not careful!
Getting a kick out of fantasy is one thing, especially things that we know are hugely taboo, but if that breaks through into a desire for actually hurting (non-consenting) people on your girlfriend's part (or if it stirs up that desire in you), then its a problem. A big one.
Is it normal to get a boner from this?
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Heh, I'm not a guy so I don't know about the boner part. :P
I can say that I do find myself fascinated by the 'dark side' of people too, but I do try very hard to keep one foot firmly grounded in reality since its so easy for our own psyches to get out of control if we're not careful!
Getting a kick out of fantasy is one thing, especially things that we know are hugely taboo, but if that breaks through into a desire for actually hurting (non-consenting) people on your girlfriend's part (or if it stirs up that desire in you), then its a problem. A big one.