You are in full control of yourself. You decide how to react to the actions or inactions of others. You can ignore them or, as it appears you do, you can get all wound up about stuff.
You have absolutely no control over what other people do or don't do. As long as you feel that people should do what you want them to (answer your messages, talk when you want them to etc), you will be forever frustrated.
You can only imagine what is going on with someone else. An unreturned message, or someone no longer online do not necessarily indicate that such has anything to do with you.
You do seem quite angry, which anger might well manifest in your communications with your friends. I for one won't answer to someone who addresses me with unprovoked anger, as might your friends.
I'm not at all having a go at you, but you really need to get some perspective about stuff.
1. Control your reactions to the actions or inactions of others.
2. You have no control over others.
3. You have no idea as to the truth about anything which isn't in the same room as you.
Is it normal to freak out everytime somone doesn't respond?
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You are in full control of yourself. You decide how to react to the actions or inactions of others. You can ignore them or, as it appears you do, you can get all wound up about stuff.
You have absolutely no control over what other people do or don't do. As long as you feel that people should do what you want them to (answer your messages, talk when you want them to etc), you will be forever frustrated.
You can only imagine what is going on with someone else. An unreturned message, or someone no longer online do not necessarily indicate that such has anything to do with you.
You do seem quite angry, which anger might well manifest in your communications with your friends. I for one won't answer to someone who addresses me with unprovoked anger, as might your friends.
I'm not at all having a go at you, but you really need to get some perspective about stuff.
1. Control your reactions to the actions or inactions of others.
2. You have no control over others.
3. You have no idea as to the truth about anything which isn't in the same room as you.
4. Don't get so angry.