Is it normal to "forgive" sex with 3 other guys

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She broke up with me when I was in another country for 20 days. Because she she was unhappy in our relationship she broke up with me over VIBER by text, 3 days after I left the country. On that day she hooked up with her ex, who also was her proffessor, 15 yrs older than her. Then I returned back after 20 days, she was still with him and then she went to swing club with him, and had sex with two other guys (not in the same time, but 2 minutes after first). She confessed that to me, and said that she hates herself, also she cried alot. After that I forgave her and we are now toghether. But that problem is bothering me for 2 months now And Im very sad and confused. Note that she hooked up with proffessor on her 18th b-day, little more than 2 months ago.

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago | pl

    sounds like a dumb bitch, if you pardon my french

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      I am surprised to see such a comment out of you. It made me smile in real life though....for some odd reason...I think I am pretty messed up in the head.

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      • shuggy-chan
        9 years ago | pl

        people are more cynical after they lose their job probably

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago | pl

          Are you trying to imply that you lost your job recently?? If so, I am sorry...

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          • shuggy-chan
            9 years ago | pl

            Yup, cause im not a "up salesman" im just a repairman, so yeah, think it time to think about a career change

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    It's fine that you forgave her but it was unwise of you to reconcile with her. Tears don't be necessarily mean that much, my friend, and often times they are tool of manipulation.

    In my humble opinion this girl is selfish, impatient, impulsive, manipulative, needy, most likely a sex addict and not worth your time and affection. Guard your heart and run, run like the wind away from this skank!

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      Andrew is about the right size for a meat and rice platter.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago | pl

    Leave that unfaithful slut!

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    That is pretty messed up in my opinion. She seems like she is going to cause nothing but heart ache for the type of guy that just wants a fairly normal monogamous relationship. I know that I am not you, but if it were me and I had a girlfriend that did that I would not be able to forgive her and I would just rather find someone else further down the line.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago | pl

    She dumped you and then had sex with others, she at least had the decency to do that. Why would you ever take someone back who dumped you? Sounds like that dumb bitch just doesn't want to be alone.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      You are part sex addict.

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago | pl

        Yeaaah, still doesn't mean that I'd do something like that.

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  • Emosewaj
    9 years ago | pl

    i think, having sex with more than one partner is just natural. i'd always forgive my gf

    IF I HAD ONE

    /sadmode on

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  • Confucious
    9 years ago | pl

    Thank you all for your comments. It helped me a lot in realizing some things.

    I just want to say that we are together, I love her and she loves me, but this problem cannot be undone just like that. Your answers helped me, now everything is up to my commitment to this relationship.
    By the way, I'm writing the whole relationship in my blog, so if you want you can read it from the beginning.
    When I finish writing I will post a link.

    Just to mention something. This relationship from the very beginning was everything but normal.

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  • zenparadox
    9 years ago | pl

    Shed 18 & I'm a swingers club. Not normal. 18 & swinging beyween commited and not. Normal. U guys need to stay "together" but not be so intense yet amd c whay happens and lno monogamy rules yet

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  • lc1988
    9 years ago | pl

    You shouldn't have gotten back together. That kind of situation would not bother very few people. You're not one of them obviously. It's best to just get out now since the relationship is doomed with that always looming over your head. I wouldn't be able to stand it which is why I moved on after my ex cheated on me. Do you think things would be any different if you had to leave again? Do you want another break up viber? She's not worth another chance.

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