Forgiveness? Sure, of course. We all make mistakes and all deserve a second chance.
But most of the time, cheating reveals a much more complex issue regarding core value compatibility.
Furthermore, is he apologizing because he was caught and now afraid of facing the consequences of losing you, or the stability and identity that your presence in his life has provided him? Does he truly love you or is he scared of being alone? Does he truly value who you are or is he comfortable? A lot of people in the world wouldn't cheat if they had ass handed to 'em on a silver platter, no matter how tumultuous their relationship might be at that time.
If you think you're one of those people, then you're probably just incompatible with this guy and it's time to move on.
Is it normal to forgive a cheater? Would you?
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Forgiveness? Sure, of course. We all make mistakes and all deserve a second chance.
But most of the time, cheating reveals a much more complex issue regarding core value compatibility.
Furthermore, is he apologizing because he was caught and now afraid of facing the consequences of losing you, or the stability and identity that your presence in his life has provided him? Does he truly love you or is he scared of being alone? Does he truly value who you are or is he comfortable? A lot of people in the world wouldn't cheat if they had ass handed to 'em on a silver platter, no matter how tumultuous their relationship might be at that time.
If you think you're one of those people, then you're probably just incompatible with this guy and it's time to move on.