Oh good I fall into your range. ;) Indeed, an older guy usually has a university degree under his belt, he's gone through a lot of hardships to get where he's at, has a good job, drives a decent car, maybe is getting into home ownership, has read a ton of books, etc. He's made mistakes from relationships and now knows what he wants and how to treat a girl right.
A guy in his 20s has none of these things usually and is most likely still self-centered, unrefined and unsure of himself and has a long way to go. Mind you some men are still idiots young or old, so you have to vet/get to know them first.
Haha, I've been used by some girls for sex (not that I mind) even though I really liked them wanted to date-usually you expect the opposite. :) And you're right, older guys are less likely to want to use a younger girl just for sex. They're more ready to settle down and build a deeper/lasting relationship.
My only fear about younger girls, as adorable as they are, is that they still are a bit immature, haven't had as much experience, so they might want to get that out of their system, party a lot and so forth until they learn more about the world and settle down around 25 yrs. Then again, some young girls know what they want in an older guy and aren't about to run off to the next big thing.
Ohh Your so understanding, more people should be as open minded as you :). You also make a great point, yes girls who are young tend to be immature at curtain points I know I can be, And that's got me to think what if there was something that I did that seems immature to 35-40 year old man, I don't want him to see me as a childish young girl. And when it comes to sex I'm still a Virgin, so what I decided I want to do with with some 10 or 20 years older than me, he might have a lot more experience and want to take thing fast, but I would want them to realize that I'm not that wise and I have so much more to learn, I'll feel very nervous and Timid and not sure of what to do. But than on the other hand I think what if older men are more caring not so harsh. Younger guys are like let's hurry up and have sex so I can bang the next girl. It can go either way I guess, it depends.
Awww thanks hun. <3 Actually I don't mind if a girl acts childish, I'll probably find it quite endearing-the kind of immaturity I mean, is if she decides to fight over some issues or is stubborn and wrong about something, I think that might cause a little friction. But I'm fairly patient so I think I could handle it.
Well personally I'm caring and like to take things slow and if she's a virgin then I'm going to try to make her first time as amazing as possible. I think guys who are fast are selfish and simply miss out on the great experience sex can be.
Plus having experience means that you generally know what a girl would like and not like-so it's be a more fun and pleasurable experience rather than being awkward like with two virgins doing it for the first time. Sex is like dancing, some are good at it, some are terrible, though one can learn to be good with practice. :)
:) Ok so, I was just thinking like you and I both understand why younger girls should be with older man because guys who are older are more mature and know what they want in life, But I'm trying to understand why some one like you for example finds it more attractive to go out with someone who is younger and does not have much experience, why don't find women your age attractive?
I think cause younger girls are less jaded and generally more fun to be with, plus can be more attractive-let's be honest. While older women have gone through things that made them more fixed in their ways, have baggage and so forth. In my case I've had younger girls come on to me and they're more flirtatious. I'm also somewhat youthful at heart too-though I'm 40 I look and feel like I'm 30.
Ohhhh that's very true, •_• I mean if I was a guy I honestly would not want to be with with a lady 36-40+ years of age, because their so mean and bitter. Like my parents for example my mom always has a problem for every thing she's 39 and my dad is 41 and he such a chill guy. Hmm we'll by what i'v read you honestly sound like a great guy I can't see why your still single, but than again who wants to be tied up to some one ;) I think it's great you still feel young and I want to be\hope to be the same 20 years from now .
:) It's funny I just remembered when I was around your age, I used to think some older women 30-40s were hot but now that I'm in that range I feel the way you do about them. I also find that some women in my age group tend to be conniving, deceitful, drama queens, etc so that's also a turn-off for me.
Thanks and likewise you definitely sound like a great girl and hopefully if I find a younger girl to date, she'll be like you. :) I'm single currently for a number of reasons, but primarily its because I've been very focused on my career and also the 'right' girl hasn't come along. I've dated numerous girls over time, but things didn't work out with them for one reason or another.
While I enjoy my freedom at times, I'm really the kind of guy who prefers to have a woman in his life so sooner or later I know I'll find one. Though I do tend to be a little picky since I've dated some amazing girls in the past and I'm just not one to settle for just anyone. If the girl is awesome I wouldn't mind being tied up with her. :)
I think you'll definitely be this way 20 years from now since you have the right mentality and are very wise for your age.
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Oh good I fall into your range. ;) Indeed, an older guy usually has a university degree under his belt, he's gone through a lot of hardships to get where he's at, has a good job, drives a decent car, maybe is getting into home ownership, has read a ton of books, etc. He's made mistakes from relationships and now knows what he wants and how to treat a girl right.
A guy in his 20s has none of these things usually and is most likely still self-centered, unrefined and unsure of himself and has a long way to go. Mind you some men are still idiots young or old, so you have to vet/get to know them first.
Haha, I've been used by some girls for sex (not that I mind) even though I really liked them wanted to date-usually you expect the opposite. :) And you're right, older guys are less likely to want to use a younger girl just for sex. They're more ready to settle down and build a deeper/lasting relationship.
My only fear about younger girls, as adorable as they are, is that they still are a bit immature, haven't had as much experience, so they might want to get that out of their system, party a lot and so forth until they learn more about the world and settle down around 25 yrs. Then again, some young girls know what they want in an older guy and aren't about to run off to the next big thing.
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Ohh Your so understanding, more people should be as open minded as you :). You also make a great point, yes girls who are young tend to be immature at curtain points I know I can be, And that's got me to think what if there was something that I did that seems immature to 35-40 year old man, I don't want him to see me as a childish young girl. And when it comes to sex I'm still a Virgin, so what I decided I want to do with with some 10 or 20 years older than me, he might have a lot more experience and want to take thing fast, but I would want them to realize that I'm not that wise and I have so much more to learn, I'll feel very nervous and Timid and not sure of what to do. But than on the other hand I think what if older men are more caring not so harsh. Younger guys are like let's hurry up and have sex so I can bang the next girl. It can go either way I guess, it depends.
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Awww thanks hun. <3 Actually I don't mind if a girl acts childish, I'll probably find it quite endearing-the kind of immaturity I mean, is if she decides to fight over some issues or is stubborn and wrong about something, I think that might cause a little friction. But I'm fairly patient so I think I could handle it.
Well personally I'm caring and like to take things slow and if she's a virgin then I'm going to try to make her first time as amazing as possible. I think guys who are fast are selfish and simply miss out on the great experience sex can be.
Plus having experience means that you generally know what a girl would like and not like-so it's be a more fun and pleasurable experience rather than being awkward like with two virgins doing it for the first time. Sex is like dancing, some are good at it, some are terrible, though one can learn to be good with practice. :)
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:) Ok so, I was just thinking like you and I both understand why younger girls should be with older man because guys who are older are more mature and know what they want in life, But I'm trying to understand why some one like you for example finds it more attractive to go out with someone who is younger and does not have much experience, why don't find women your age attractive?
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Ohhhh that's very true, •_• I mean if I was a guy I honestly would not want to be with with a lady 36-40+ years of age, because their so mean and bitter. Like my parents for example my mom always has a problem for every thing she's 39 and my dad is 41 and he such a chill guy. Hmm we'll by what i'v read you honestly sound like a great guy I can't see why your still single, but than again who wants to be tied up to some one ;) I think it's great you still feel young and I want to be\hope to be the same 20 years from now .
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:) It's funny I just remembered when I was around your age, I used to think some older women 30-40s were hot but now that I'm in that range I feel the way you do about them. I also find that some women in my age group tend to be conniving, deceitful, drama queens, etc so that's also a turn-off for me.
Thanks and likewise you definitely sound like a great girl and hopefully if I find a younger girl to date, she'll be like you. :) I'm single currently for a number of reasons, but primarily its because I've been very focused on my career and also the 'right' girl hasn't come along. I've dated numerous girls over time, but things didn't work out with them for one reason or another.
While I enjoy my freedom at times, I'm really the kind of guy who prefers to have a woman in his life so sooner or later I know I'll find one. Though I do tend to be a little picky since I've dated some amazing girls in the past and I'm just not one to settle for just anyone. If the girl is awesome I wouldn't mind being tied up with her. :)
I think you'll definitely be this way 20 years from now since you have the right mentality and are very wise for your age.