I don't want anything more than friendship either! But thank you for your reply. Have you ever thought of playing around with your friends just to feel good and have fun? Or is that crossing the line? I guess I don't know what I would do/feel if it actually came down to it, but I think I wouldn't mind just messing around for fun with my friend and pleasing him.
Thinking about it and doing it are two very different things. Don't worry, I think it's fairly normal to think about it. I mean, they probably are attractive, regardless of your friendship. And the fact that they are your friends and you get on well might make them even more attractive, that would definitely make sense. I personally, wouldn't do it. I don't think they'd be interested in it anyway, but I wouldn't either. I don't really see them that way. I just think they're very beautiful people. To me, it would be crossing the line. It just wouldn't happen with my closest friends (who are either female or gay). It might be different for you , though. What works for you and your friends is different to what works with me and mine.:) I mean, relationships (including casual ones) which started as friendships are hardly rare, are they?:P
Glad to hear it's not unusual for me to think about it! And I agree that I'm not so sure I would go through with it, but since I haven't come face to face with it yet, I don't know what I would do. Thanks for your help! :)
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I don't want anything more than friendship either! But thank you for your reply. Have you ever thought of playing around with your friends just to feel good and have fun? Or is that crossing the line? I guess I don't know what I would do/feel if it actually came down to it, but I think I wouldn't mind just messing around for fun with my friend and pleasing him.
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Thinking about it and doing it are two very different things. Don't worry, I think it's fairly normal to think about it. I mean, they probably are attractive, regardless of your friendship. And the fact that they are your friends and you get on well might make them even more attractive, that would definitely make sense. I personally, wouldn't do it. I don't think they'd be interested in it anyway, but I wouldn't either. I don't really see them that way. I just think they're very beautiful people. To me, it would be crossing the line. It just wouldn't happen with my closest friends (who are either female or gay). It might be different for you , though. What works for you and your friends is different to what works with me and mine.:) I mean, relationships (including casual ones) which started as friendships are hardly rare, are they?:P
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Glad to hear it's not unusual for me to think about it! And I agree that I'm not so sure I would go through with it, but since I haven't come face to face with it yet, I don't know what I would do. Thanks for your help! :)