Is it normal to find sexual activities boring?

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First off, I'm 18 and female. I've always had troubles judging the 'hotness' of guys, as none of them particularly appealed to me. I've had a couple boyfriends and tried being sexual with them, but I found it boring and tedious- like a chore. I'm not homosexual, as I've dated a girl before as well and wasn't into that either. I do however, enjoy the company of men, but I am completely uninterested in their appearances and having sex with them.(I have never been abused and have no diagnosed mental or physical illness.) Is it normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You probably are just not a very sexual person. Some people find a good conversation or time spent with the person they love more satisfying than sex.

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  • almetcalf
    12 years ago

    You are probably asexual. Never get involved with a guy that likes sex, you will drive him insane. find someone like yourself.

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  • selaretus
    12 years ago

    Sex is overrated and over emphasized in society in my opinion.

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  • Ibelievethis
    12 years ago

    There's no law that says people have to be at it constantly. You probably just have a low sex drive. as amazing as sex can be it can also get boring,too. xx

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Asexual - google it , your name will come up first

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  • tomperry
    12 years ago

    It's not normal to find them boring. Revolting, yes. Uninteresting except with a man you love, yes. But boring? Surely not?

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  • Jeshua
    12 years ago

    You just haven't met the right person. I'm like that you can be gorgeous in appearance but if you don't interest me or if you have no character my sexuality won't work for you lol. Everyone says my ex wasn't good looking at all but I thought that she was absolutely beautiful. Don't fight it just accept it and it'll all come together

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Maybe you need to find a guy your emotionaly attracted to, not physically? I find i'm more attracted to personality apposed to appearance, it could be that your the same way. So date around, and find a guy you get to know and see if that works for you?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you just haven't found that special guy who can rock your world.

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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    hmmm..... maybe you have not found the 'right' person yet. have you been in love? have you constantly thought constantly about a guy whom you like and get butterlfies when you see him?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      No, I've never been in love. :/ I don't get crushes very often either (I have had two in my life, neither of which I dated). I've never been the type of person to get butterflies or enjoy flirting- although apparently people try to flirt with me a lot. I also just feel awkward dating because men apparently find me "hot" and uh- I don't really know what that means or its implications.

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      • chatter289
        12 years ago

        That may explain it. Having sex or making love to someone you love will never feel like a chore promise you. I think that you should relax and loosen yourself up, and when you do meet a guy who you really really like and possibly love one day than take it slow, you have all the time in e world. In the mean time, honestly don't waste your time trying to do things with guys you don't have much feeling, it's not fair on them and on you xx

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