IIN to find it difficult to fight the urge?

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  • darefu
    1 year ago | pl

    5 to 9 years is the hump. The newness is gone and the living responsibilities kick in.

    Is the wife attractive, you could send her my way maybe another girl can loosen things up a bit.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago | pl

      Obviously one of the reasons why I married her is because she’s very attractive

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      • darefu
        1 year ago | pl

        The fact you say she's very attractive tells me there is still something there.
        Fire is still smoldering just needs a little kickin' around to get the flames back. 5 years is on the early side for this, but look at what's changed. Do you both work, have children, live payday to payday. Are you still attractive to her or have you let yourself go a bit.

        At this point I'd say it's to early to get another person involved, for you or her. Do some date nights, cut some work hours, and expenses if need be, farm the kids out for a weekend. In other words put some spice back into it.

        I've had more fun and enjoyed my partner more living in a shack with extra money to spend than living in a mansion, with a fancy car, but no play money.

        Put the attention back on her and get her attention back on you. Nothing excites most guys more than a turned on girl. Flip her switch back to on.

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