I agree with Tealights. Growing up, I used to not understand why girls I went to school with only wanted to hook up with the wannabe gangsters and bullies, but the answer is obvious now.
It all boils down to women being attracted to power, and while some men obtain an aura of power through increasing their wealth and reputation, other men take the easier route of bullying and dominating their fellow men to appear powerful. That's why the nerdy, studious types don't get any girls in school. They have a plan for the future where they'll be powerful, but at the present time they have no power. Young girls want bullies and assholes because although these guys will be losers in 10-20 years, their violent personalities emanate power at the present time, and these girls haven't looked far enough ahead into the future to care about anything other than the present.
Once their future becomes present, and all their relationships crumble to pieces due to their SO's domestic abuse, drug abuse, inability to keep a job, or jail time, they get past this long phase of only dating bad boys and come crawling to some beta male who took the hard route and may finally get to lose his virginity at the ripe age of 30, if he hadn't already gone to a hooker and sworn off women before then.
Means you ain't had the kind of dominating, thorough, and rough choke sex that changes your life yet. Or makes you forget that you even have a safe word.
First off I don't equate being dangerous/violent with being flat out mean. I'm talking about guys who don't always know how to handle their anger/ that are a bit emotionally unstable, which includes being overly sensitive. I don't want a "bully" or an "asshole". I am simply turned on by someone who is uncontrollable. Also I said "threatening to become violent" not being violent.
The only time I find actual violence arousing is when there are killings in a movie. And I know that's weird but I also know it's fake so there's no real harm being done.
Also I have a brain. I wouldn't hope in bed with a serial killer nor would I ever intentionally get involved with an abusive man.
I think before I act and my first thought is that OHH MY GOSH I'M SO TURNED ON; FUCK ME, but my second thought Is ...ya, know id seriously never get involved with someone so explosive
The question was simply if my initial attraction towards these me normal or my arousals from these films.
I'm sorry but you have a very stupid and immature viewpoint. "Threatening" to become violent is what precedes actually becoming violent.
Serial killers don't walk around with shirts that advertise what they are or business cards that they hand out detailing how many prostitutes they have killed.
If you are somehow turned on by violence and don't move away from this compulsion YOU WILL end up with a violent person.
I'm sorry, but you're incapable of comprehension. I literally said in my post that I would never get involved with someone who is so explosive.
It's basic thought and afterthought.
What I've explained in the initial question was my thought (being sexualy aroused by anger), but in my comment above I explain my afterthought(not finding it attractive). I'm aware of dangerous personality traits and logically would never seek them in a relationship. All violence isnt domestic abuse but that doesn't matter because I'm not talking about my "type of guy".
The point youre trying to make about serial killers not having a brand is stupid. No where did I make it seem as though I could tell from a crowd of men who is and who isn't
Because I've already made it clear that I do not attach myself to men with these traits.
Also n all your outlandish hypotheticals you seem to think I want to DATE this type of guy. I'm gonna put this bluntly; angry guys amongst other things make me wet, make me want sex, make me want to fuck. That does not mean I want to marry or even bang a guy who is angry.
You know what else makes me wet? My boyfriend doesn't have a single angry atom in his body; Nicest guy you'll ever meet. He both attracts and arouse me. Violence only arouses me. Do ya see the difference now?
It isn't a " compulsion " because compulsions aren't controllable and I have plenty of control over who's dick I hop on when I'm horny. But thanks for your "concern".
goodbye!
It's normal Hun don't listen to them. Now find a bad boy(in the 28-38 year old ranges so they know what the fuck they are doing)and have him dominate you completely in bed. Completely!
Hair pulling/ass slapping/stuffing fingers in your mouth while he has you writhing in pleasure from orgasm/biting/spitting/role playing he is pissed at you while he fucks you/choking!
Choking or erotic asphyxiation since he isn't really choking, choking you, is the one thing to make sure he does right as you start to orgasm. You are going to get so soaking wet in bed as he does that and that intensifies the strength of the orgasms you have.
Well you could be teaching your bf how to use your kinkiness for violence during sex, in order to drive you literally crazy from the pleasure of the heightened sense.
Is it normal to find dangerous/violent men highly attractive?
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I agree with Tealights. Growing up, I used to not understand why girls I went to school with only wanted to hook up with the wannabe gangsters and bullies, but the answer is obvious now.
It all boils down to women being attracted to power, and while some men obtain an aura of power through increasing their wealth and reputation, other men take the easier route of bullying and dominating their fellow men to appear powerful. That's why the nerdy, studious types don't get any girls in school. They have a plan for the future where they'll be powerful, but at the present time they have no power. Young girls want bullies and assholes because although these guys will be losers in 10-20 years, their violent personalities emanate power at the present time, and these girls haven't looked far enough ahead into the future to care about anything other than the present.
Once their future becomes present, and all their relationships crumble to pieces due to their SO's domestic abuse, drug abuse, inability to keep a job, or jail time, they get past this long phase of only dating bad boys and come crawling to some beta male who took the hard route and may finally get to lose his virginity at the ripe age of 30, if he hadn't already gone to a hooker and sworn off women before then.
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What does it mean if you've never been attracted to bad boys at all?
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It means you are attracted to creeps. (Nice creeps, that is.)
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Nice to catch you there. I do like a bit of a nerdy streak.
Means you ain't had the kind of dominating, thorough, and rough choke sex that changes your life yet. Or makes you forget that you even have a safe word.
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I would never consent to that bullshit, so as far as I'm concerned what you're describing would be rape, asshole!
First off I don't equate being dangerous/violent with being flat out mean. I'm talking about guys who don't always know how to handle their anger/ that are a bit emotionally unstable, which includes being overly sensitive. I don't want a "bully" or an "asshole". I am simply turned on by someone who is uncontrollable. Also I said "threatening to become violent" not being violent.
The only time I find actual violence arousing is when there are killings in a movie. And I know that's weird but I also know it's fake so there's no real harm being done.
Also I have a brain. I wouldn't hope in bed with a serial killer nor would I ever intentionally get involved with an abusive man.
I think before I act and my first thought is that OHH MY GOSH I'M SO TURNED ON; FUCK ME, but my second thought Is ...ya, know id seriously never get involved with someone so explosive
The question was simply if my initial attraction towards these me normal or my arousals from these films.
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I'm sorry but you have a very stupid and immature viewpoint. "Threatening" to become violent is what precedes actually becoming violent.
Serial killers don't walk around with shirts that advertise what they are or business cards that they hand out detailing how many prostitutes they have killed.
If you are somehow turned on by violence and don't move away from this compulsion YOU WILL end up with a violent person.
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I'm sorry, but you're incapable of comprehension. I literally said in my post that I would never get involved with someone who is so explosive.
It's basic thought and afterthought.
What I've explained in the initial question was my thought (being sexualy aroused by anger), but in my comment above I explain my afterthought(not finding it attractive). I'm aware of dangerous personality traits and logically would never seek them in a relationship. All violence isnt domestic abuse but that doesn't matter because I'm not talking about my "type of guy".
The point youre trying to make about serial killers not having a brand is stupid. No where did I make it seem as though I could tell from a crowd of men who is and who isn't
Because I've already made it clear that I do not attach myself to men with these traits.
Also n all your outlandish hypotheticals you seem to think I want to DATE this type of guy. I'm gonna put this bluntly; angry guys amongst other things make me wet, make me want sex, make me want to fuck. That does not mean I want to marry or even bang a guy who is angry.
You know what else makes me wet? My boyfriend doesn't have a single angry atom in his body; Nicest guy you'll ever meet. He both attracts and arouse me. Violence only arouses me. Do ya see the difference now?
It isn't a " compulsion " because compulsions aren't controllable and I have plenty of control over who's dick I hop on when I'm horny. But thanks for your "concern".
goodbye!
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It's normal Hun don't listen to them. Now find a bad boy(in the 28-38 year old ranges so they know what the fuck they are doing)and have him dominate you completely in bed. Completely!
Hair pulling/ass slapping/stuffing fingers in your mouth while he has you writhing in pleasure from orgasm/biting/spitting/role playing he is pissed at you while he fucks you/choking!
Choking or erotic asphyxiation since he isn't really choking, choking you, is the one thing to make sure he does right as you start to orgasm. You are going to get so soaking wet in bed as he does that and that intensifies the strength of the orgasms you have.
Well you could be teaching your bf how to use your kinkiness for violence during sex, in order to drive you literally crazy from the pleasure of the heightened sense.