Your opinion is modern, misguided, and all too common. First and foremost, men and women are shaped differently. Secondly, clothes fit demand: most men want to look more masculine, and most women want to look more feminine. That's normal.
The only people yelling at you to 'dress more feminine/masculine' are your disappointed parents.
Eh no not really i get it from quite a few people.
And as far as the body types thing goes they are typically tailored more towards 'that gender' but i'm -believe it or not- a weird as fuck body type that's not more masculine leaning but more feminine leaning either but certainly not andrgynous but rather a mix of the two thrown in a blender thrown on a solid -and sadly not very wiry- frame. (Sure they tend to cater to 'more common' types which is not me -It sounds really stupid but- some combinations make finding clothes that fit hell without much difficulty literally all my problems would be solved if i was more lithe of frame and andrgynous believe me as what woukd fit in the shoulders is too short, ect. I 'cant afford to be picky' but i'm picky anyway because i'd rather not waste money on clothes i'd rather give away than look at any longer)
So it's actually pretty hard to find stuff that fits anyways unless it's custom made sooo i tend to wear whatever fits if i like it. But alas despite not liking to show too much skin i also don't like to wear stuff that's too close fitting/clingy so my choices are skewed further as my skeletal frame isnt slender to begin with...So i -as misguided as you like to think i am (which i am holding no offense to)- tend to make do with what i like that fits (and it personally makes me happier than only wearing 'what i should be' wearing) which always drives my mother up the wall (and always has) but my mother isnt the only culprit here chewing me out for it xD
...Not that her opinion ever mattered to me anyways because she never cared about anything regarding me unless it -in her opinion- reflects badly on her.
IIN to find clothes so unneccercarily gendered in this day and age?
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Your opinion is modern, misguided, and all too common. First and foremost, men and women are shaped differently. Secondly, clothes fit demand: most men want to look more masculine, and most women want to look more feminine. That's normal.
The only people yelling at you to 'dress more feminine/masculine' are your disappointed parents.
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Eh no not really i get it from quite a few people.
And as far as the body types thing goes they are typically tailored more towards 'that gender' but i'm -believe it or not- a weird as fuck body type that's not more masculine leaning but more feminine leaning either but certainly not andrgynous but rather a mix of the two thrown in a blender thrown on a solid -and sadly not very wiry- frame. (Sure they tend to cater to 'more common' types which is not me -It sounds really stupid but- some combinations make finding clothes that fit hell without much difficulty literally all my problems would be solved if i was more lithe of frame and andrgynous believe me as what woukd fit in the shoulders is too short, ect. I 'cant afford to be picky' but i'm picky anyway because i'd rather not waste money on clothes i'd rather give away than look at any longer)
So it's actually pretty hard to find stuff that fits anyways unless it's custom made sooo i tend to wear whatever fits if i like it. But alas despite not liking to show too much skin i also don't like to wear stuff that's too close fitting/clingy so my choices are skewed further as my skeletal frame isnt slender to begin with...So i -as misguided as you like to think i am (which i am holding no offense to)- tend to make do with what i like that fits (and it personally makes me happier than only wearing 'what i should be' wearing) which always drives my mother up the wall (and always has) but my mother isnt the only culprit here chewing me out for it xD
...Not that her opinion ever mattered to me anyways because she never cared about anything regarding me unless it -in her opinion- reflects badly on her.