Is it normal to fight with my boyfriend alot?!

Ok so like I've been with my bf for 3 years and we fight alot! But we usually get over it like nothing happened! I especially get mad when he plays xbox all day! And he gets mad when i tell him something about it. AND I'm stilll a teenager so sometimes i feel like we shouldn't fight so much since were preety young. Is it normal?!

Is It Normal?
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  • I've been with my boyfriend for three years as well, and it really depends on what your arguing about. My boyfriend and I argue about stupid little things ALL the time and we always find a way to laugh about it. It means that you guys are at a comfort level to be relaxed around each other and not have to be fake.

    Couples also go in and out of phases - before you know it you could be right back on track and SUPER happy with each other. But its all about finding balance and recognizing what makes each other tick and what you both expect of each other. It's a good idea to sit down and talk about it - no one ever stays the same so the expectations may be different as well. You can sit down with him and tell him how it frustrates you that he's only ever playing with his Xbox.

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  • Don't stay with someone because it should be right-you fight because you're not compatible. Stand back and ask yourself: if we weren't the perfect looking couple and my friends opinions didn't matter, do I actually enjoy the company of this person?

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  • Thats awsome doll! :)
    I was more than happy to help , and good luck in the future :)

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  • Omgosh thank you so much! I jus came home from his house and it went well. I told how i felt out the xbox and he said of course he"ll stop playing!(: yay(: he sed all I had to do was ask! Thank you for everything.(:

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  • P.S: I'm 19 if that helps.

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