Normal people don't hit their spouse. Good people don't hit anyone. It's important you understand your husband was exceptionally vicious and you do not need to take this from anybody. It's not at all okay. There's a billion guys out there who would never harm you, I'm sure you could find one.
As for the divorce: If you're afraid of what your husband might do if you divorce him, I'd suggest you go to the police and ask them how to handle it.
Good luck. I really hope you'll find a better life.
Good response except for the suggestion about the police: what on earth do you think they can do for her in this situation? Despite all the lovely rhetoric about "awareness" most of them do nothing or make a situation worse, and how on earth could they take any meaningful action based on OP's fear of what her ex may do?
She's made the right decision to not bother with a divorce: if there are no kids or property involved why bother unless/until she wants to remarry?
I don't know where she lives and maybe the police really can't do anything there. But it can't hurt to ask. They must have a lot of experience with cases like this and maybe they know what solutions work best. Maybe she can get a restraining order or something, I really don't know. That's why I'd ask the professionals.
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Normal people don't hit their spouse. Good people don't hit anyone. It's important you understand your husband was exceptionally vicious and you do not need to take this from anybody. It's not at all okay. There's a billion guys out there who would never harm you, I'm sure you could find one.
As for the divorce: If you're afraid of what your husband might do if you divorce him, I'd suggest you go to the police and ask them how to handle it.
Good luck. I really hope you'll find a better life.
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Good response except for the suggestion about the police: what on earth do you think they can do for her in this situation? Despite all the lovely rhetoric about "awareness" most of them do nothing or make a situation worse, and how on earth could they take any meaningful action based on OP's fear of what her ex may do?
She's made the right decision to not bother with a divorce: if there are no kids or property involved why bother unless/until she wants to remarry?
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I don't know where she lives and maybe the police really can't do anything there. But it can't hurt to ask. They must have a lot of experience with cases like this and maybe they know what solutions work best. Maybe she can get a restraining order or something, I really don't know. That's why I'd ask the professionals.