Honestly, I do believe it wasn't an intentional put down. I could be wrong, but by the way this story sounds, it was you who jumped to conclusions. Now, whether she likes you or not is a factor that could or could not change, depending on how you two interact. Just be nice to her, but not overly nice. But the comment "You're not 6'2" could either be an excuse not to answer you or stating she prefers tall men.. Either way, you shouldn't let it get the best of you. I am sure you're a nice guy, and all this low self-esteem and depression is mental damage you have received from years of self abuse and abuse from others, I believe. So the best thing you can do is keep your chin up, listen to a happy song, find a good hobby that you enjoy, and just progress in life as much as you can. Believe in yourself, and find something that motivates you to keep going. You can do anything if you set your focus on it. As a wise woman once said "If you feel as if you cannot go any further, take one more step." This quote basically means, if you feel like quitting, keep going, and everything will come out okay, maybe not soon, but in the long run. Don't give up my friend, -Wicked
Is it normal to feel worthless when someone says they don't like you?
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Honestly, I do believe it wasn't an intentional put down. I could be wrong, but by the way this story sounds, it was you who jumped to conclusions. Now, whether she likes you or not is a factor that could or could not change, depending on how you two interact. Just be nice to her, but not overly nice. But the comment "You're not 6'2" could either be an excuse not to answer you or stating she prefers tall men.. Either way, you shouldn't let it get the best of you. I am sure you're a nice guy, and all this low self-esteem and depression is mental damage you have received from years of self abuse and abuse from others, I believe. So the best thing you can do is keep your chin up, listen to a happy song, find a good hobby that you enjoy, and just progress in life as much as you can. Believe in yourself, and find something that motivates you to keep going. You can do anything if you set your focus on it. As a wise woman once said "If you feel as if you cannot go any further, take one more step." This quote basically means, if you feel like quitting, keep going, and everything will come out okay, maybe not soon, but in the long run. Don't give up my friend, -Wicked