Is it normal to feel wierd about having sex with my bf?

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So me and my bf have been together for 1 yr and 7 months. I love him more than anything. But since a few months ago I feel. Really wierd when we get intimate. I feel like it's inapropiate or something. It has never been an issue until now. I just feel like I don't want to do anything like that with him and it makes me feel really bad. Is this normal? What's wrong with me?

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Maybe you actually want a commitment, marriage.

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  • thatmuffinman
    12 years ago

    Would feel like garbage for leaving a girl for not having sex with me, but at the same time I understand that I am not too great with waiting and have a quite ravenous appetite.

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  • cookiesaregreat
    12 years ago

    i had the same with my boyfriend . . . being intimate made me feel bad and guilty, no idea why. He didnt want to be with me if i wouldnt be intimate with him, so we broke up.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I've felt this way before and a guy actually left because of it, it was really shitty. But anyone who loves you won't leave because you want to red-light the sex for awhile. Tell your boyfriend that you're not comfortable with it at the moment and you need some time to figure it out, and that it has nothing to do with him. Trust me, if you keep having sex when you feel so weird about it, its going to build up and make you resent your boyfriend.

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  • lamoronitsi
    13 years ago

    Trust me, he'll notice and wonder why and it's very likely that he'll feel rejected, if you have a logical reason then you should let him no to spare him unnecessary anxiety. If you don't know why then you should do some thinking.

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  • superorc
    13 years ago

    it cood be passball that u dont what to be with a guy at that lvl or u just not radly to be that close to any yet

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Most of the time,thats how I feel about things.
    I get the feeling we don't need to sleep together,you know? Its not life or death anyway,so it doesn't matter to me =D

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  • Ihave2try
    14 years ago

    Think really hard... is he making you feel bad about something? Like, is sex all about him and when he's done, does hr roll over and fall asleep? Stuff like that.

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  • hengiska
    14 years ago

    From my point of you it's normal :) give time to it and it will fly away :-)

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  • twillight62
    14 years ago

    Maybe u don't love him so much or you need time. But at least let him know. That's being fair to him

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  • NorthernStar
    11 years ago

    What isn't normal is saying "me and my bf." Go back to school and learn proper grammar before you post anything else.

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