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I have been talking to this guy for over 2 years now. I'm 18 now and he is 33. I have been on and off with this other guy(same age as me) for 3 years though. so I kind of only go to the 33 year old guy (I'll refer to him as " S. " from now on) when I'm feeling lonely. Every time I'm with S. though I feel.. weird. Like he touches my thigh or something and I feel a little disgusted and push his hand away but he thinks I'm playing so he just keeps touching me. And when I kiss him it feels really awkward but I like making him happy even though it makes me feel a bit disgusted.. is this a normal feeling? Has anyone ever felt this way..what should I do?

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago | pl

    No, this is far from normal. If you feel repulsed by kissing someone, you shouldn't kiss him. Period.
    Don't ever do anything that makes you that uncomfortable for someone else's gratification.
    You should really call it off with this guy. You may like him, but you're not into him. Your brain is trying to tell you this, so listen.

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  • hungamungabinga
    10 years ago | pl

    Listen your getting these feelings b/c deep inside because you know something isnt right ie maybe you feel like he is a rapist or something bad will happen. you are feeling this way for a reason.

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  • Whoarewe
    10 years ago | pl

    Thank you everyone for the advice. I think I'm gonna stay away from both of them from now on.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    10 years ago | pl

    If he disgusts you then you should stay well away from him. Simple.
    Find a man around the same age as you, who you like. Stay away from your ex and stay away from "S".

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  • nursebetty
    10 years ago | pl

    Totally agree with iEatZombies! Listen to them!

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago | pl

    You sound emotionally damaged inside, I'd be willing to bet you have unresolved emotional trauma of which you might not even be aware. I think you would do well to forget about dating and sex altogether; see a therapist to try to find out why you would behave this way. Maybe you were abused,molested and or neglected. Regardless, your behavior towards yourself isn't very kind or loving and it's certainly not normal. You're torturing yourself!

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  • pambambam
    10 years ago | pl

    you reminded me of precious .jejej

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  • ilikepenises12
    10 years ago | pl

    I agree with hungamungbinga. I think you should stay with "S" he seems like a really swet person. I liked to be touched. Do you not? I think you should totally do what hungamunabinga said. Shes so right.

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  • kr24
    10 years ago | pl

    You're probably the same kinda chick that friendzones accomplished guys your age who care about you?

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