Is it normal to feel "too" insecure to have sex with your spouse?

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So lately I've been feeling insecure and unwanted by my husband. I don't know what it is, but I've been feeling that way.

I've had his child for 2 years now and never once have I ever felt this way. When it comes to sex now, I get emotional about my body. I worry that i don't give him good sex or I worry that he doesn't like my body.

I'm not thick, nor am I a stick. I weigh about 115 pounds.

Anyways.. I also never had a problem with him watching porn and masterbathing in the past but it also has bothered me a bit lately. I feel like I don't give him good sex...though I try.

Trust me, I give him a lot more pleasures than he can provide me with. I just want to know if it's normal to feel insecure around my spouse when it comes to sex.

Is It Normal?
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  • king32
    9 years ago | pl

    You need to talk to him because my lover is the same way with being insecure about her body, but there is no reason for her to be because her body excites me. It's hard to convince her of that sometimes so you have to be willing to believe him when he tells you that

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago | pl

    Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      Ewww...feelings..

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      • Avant-Garde
        9 years ago | pl

        They aren't like the cooties. (Whatever the hell those were. I doubt most of us even knew what that meant.)

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago | pl

    Try talking to him about it. Getting your feelings out in the open may help.

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  • 69
    9 years ago | pl

    that's sad because you're likely a fine looking woman with self esteem issues. has anything changed between the two of you recently? is there anything he's been doing that makes you feel that way? if it's just how you feel about your body yourself do something about it

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