Is it normal to feel this way or am I sexist/homophobic?

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  • Have you ever sought counseling, or therapy to help you work through any issues you might have about the assault? How long ago did the assault happen? Maybe the statute of limitations hasn't run out yet? It might help you to report that awful bitch who assaulted you. Unfortunately it's not uncommon for people who are abused to seek reenact that trauma with other people. I think you need to seek out help, and to make sure you don't have any PTSD, or C-PTSD. Don't be in a rush to do anything sexual with anyone, especially other women, until you a have worked through these issues.

    Also filing a police report against the person who assaulted you can be empowering as well. Talk to a mental health professional as soon as possible. Don't go it alone with your trauma.

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    • All very valid points... We were both minors so I doubt anything would happen legally. Honestly I have not sought counseling for it, I’ve pretty much just started admitting to myself what happened. Thank you

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      • You are very welcome!

        I'm glad that you are able to admit to yourself what happened, and I hope you can get some help. Don't be afraid to get help. Be good to yourself, and love yourself. No one has the right to sexually assault anyone else.

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