And an open relationship totally defeats the meaning of love and making that one person feel special do not go with that. Trust me you don't wanna throw away this over wanting to go have fun, I do get what your saying and all but if what your saying is you wanna have fun with other men...then maybe you should really rethink your relationship and if you really want it. It is hard to find someone these days that will stay and be with you forever...you have already built your way up with him. Why crush it for a little fun?
The OP is only 22 years old. She has her whole life in which to find a new guy. One of my friends got married for the first time last year at 47 yo but she had previous long term relationships of 5 yrs, 8 yrs, 2yrs, 6 yrs and never hung on to any of them - in case she never met anyone else.
I think the OP means 'fun' as in laughter, not to go whoring the country and as Charlie Chaplin said, "A day without laughter is a day of your life wasted."
Get out of this relationship if he doesn't make you laugh anymore and find one that does.
Don't stick with this guy coz of the past 5 years, you could waste another 5 years.
Is it normal to feel this way in a relationship ?
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And an open relationship totally defeats the meaning of love and making that one person feel special do not go with that. Trust me you don't wanna throw away this over wanting to go have fun, I do get what your saying and all but if what your saying is you wanna have fun with other men...then maybe you should really rethink your relationship and if you really want it. It is hard to find someone these days that will stay and be with you forever...you have already built your way up with him. Why crush it for a little fun?
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Are you serious?
Too many women think like you!
The OP is only 22 years old. She has her whole life in which to find a new guy. One of my friends got married for the first time last year at 47 yo but she had previous long term relationships of 5 yrs, 8 yrs, 2yrs, 6 yrs and never hung on to any of them - in case she never met anyone else.
I think the OP means 'fun' as in laughter, not to go whoring the country and as Charlie Chaplin said, "A day without laughter is a day of your life wasted."
Get out of this relationship if he doesn't make you laugh anymore and find one that does.
Don't stick with this guy coz of the past 5 years, you could waste another 5 years.