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Ok so here's my story.
My girlfriend of 3 years I just found out has been cheating on me throughout the relationship. I've always liked wen she talked about past experiences and I really do miss her. Do you think I should still just sleep w her or should I just never talk to her again?
Cheating seems pretty normal in modern society. My cousin cheats, my best friends cheat, my female friends cheat, and I've overheard people talking in college classes about cheating.
In my opinion though, cheating is a capitol offense, and deserves the severing of all contact. But I also feel that sex, or anything close to sex (foreplay, making out, etc) is an intimate and bonding experience, not to be taken lightly.
The two rules I have: If you decide to step up to the plate to take a swing, it is cheating from that point on if with anyone else, and whatever it is, tell me right away and don't lie to me for 3-4 weeks and then tell me the truth. I hate that. Breaking either of those, and regardless how long I've known the person, its over.
No if you go back to her you are giving her control. Stand up for yourself by saying no. If she was a bitch enough to cheat she is not worth talking to any longer. Do not have sex with her ignore her and act as if she was erased from the face of this planet. If you say yes you are saying that she deserves you and at this point does she really? You are a better man so prove it and do not let her or any women treat you this way!
Yea, if she still wants to bang you then there's still something she likes about you. Maybe a relationship with you isn't what she wants or needs but IF, and that's a big IF, she's attractive, fit, clean, and not some fat chick then sure, keep having fun with her. If you CAN do better though and have easy access to better, why deal with the old toy?
The only person who can really decide is you. You have to make the choice if you can live and be happy with her after what she's done or if its just gonna be in the back of your head eating you up. Or if you think she would do it again. Theirs so many more questions to be answered and you have a lot of thinking and talking ahead of you but like I said its up to you what you want from her from here on out and of course her too if she's still wanting to be with you.