Is it normal to feel this way about wanting a boy and a girl

Gender related concepts consist loosely of 4 seperate scales:

biological gender (your sex chromosomes)
e.g. XX, XY or XXY

gender identity (what gender you view yourself as, tends to be the same as biological gender)
e.g. cisgendered, transgender, gender queer etc.

gender expression (what gender you act like, dress like, governed by a balance between gender identity and social norms)
e.g. male, female, androgenous

sexuality (which gender you are attracted to)
e.g. heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual

Unfortunately people tend to guess your position on some some scales using your position on others. Obviously there are trends, but guessing that someone is homosexual, just because their gender expression does not completely match their biological gender is not a good idea. It seems that your parents have, however, doen just that.

Don't worry :) it doesn't matter that you were home schooled cause I never was and I even fantasized about girls yet I'm 100% straight ( I'm a female also). I also did find it much more easier and exciting but I freaked out at the thought of myself bring with someone other than a guy. It just might be a phase

which one makes you feel happier is all that matters and how you feel around them do you feel this special feeling with guys or girls who makes you get that special feeling inside

Tommy Boy was a funny movie.

Also, I feel that sexuality is fluid and not so easily defined. Don't worry about it, it's normal.

I think if you got a bf, and started having sex with a guy, your fantasies about girls might go away. I believe its a lack of sex that makes our minds think otherwise.

sounds like you are bi-sexual which is not uncommon at all. women and men alike have those urges that can be sexually turned on with either sex. i have been with men but love women. i only like sex with men occasionally but make love to women. i have had a variety of sexual needs and have quenched my thirst on all. some people hold those urges inside and never pursue their wishes. what is normal is normal for you. go find you a friend and see how you feel. there are many women out there that enjoy being with same gender. got to bisexual.com and you can do a lot of reading or maybe meet a nice partner in your area. maybe a couple that you can be freinds with and have both at once.

you may find it easier to fantasise about women because thats all you physically know in relation to sexual activity because you know your way around your anatomy, not so much the male anatomy as you stated you have done nothing sexual with anyone

Wanna be my girlfriend? Im 25 male and as you, I also think it's much better having sex with girls hehehe.. But unlike you I don't want to marry a guy or even sexually touch one lol... what do you say? :D

*I mean it!

Consider the fact that you might be bisexual. I am, and I think it's awesome =)

like Picasso said you should really broaden your experiences and just see what you like. Especially at your age it is important to see what you are comfortable with. Sex is not bad! Would you really want to be 50, married with kids and then realizing that you want something different? for fuck's sake experiment a bit!

I used to have a crush on a girl at my school who is just like you. I'm a 17 years old going on 18, and I used to think I was bisexual. But I have to admit, I LOVE penises more than coochies, so that's that. You are okay. Just think about it as another aspect of your life I personally don't let sexuality define me or anyone else. Be you, and even though most people might not like it, they will respect you one way or another. Be you! <3

Its normal a lot of people feel just the same way you do. Think about all of the girls who are strait and know all the words to the song I kissed a girl.

I say have some sex. Figure out what you like and don't like. Sometimes fantasies are good to have for JUST THAT - fantasizing. I think everyone has some fantasies that they find arousing but wouldn't actually want to DO in real life. On the other hand, if you find that you really do love men (want to marry one and all that) but you still have sexual feelings for women... well, I'm sure there's a man out there somewhere who could love you just the way you are.

Sexuality is measured on a chart
1-7
1 Comepletely homosexual
7 heterosexual
Believe it or not 90% of the population is a 4
words 4 thought

you may be homosexual and heteroromantic....

the opposite of me, ha

Sounds like you might be a natural polygamist. You might be happier marrying a husband who has more than one wife.