An abortion is an awful thing to have to go through, even if that's the only thing the person wants to do. You sound like you want to keep the baby, so if you do have an abortion, then do you not think you will regret it massively? I can't imagine that's an easy thing to get over either.
When my sister got pregnant, no-one was thrilled; she was 16, she'd have to leave her job, etc. She decided to keep the baby, although several people suggested that she get an abortion. When people realised she was very serious about keeping the baby, they had to deal with it. Soon enough everyone was really excited, and everyone is so happy that she decided to keep him, because my nephew is just the most wonderful person. I don't know your family, but if you stand your ground, is there a chance they will accept your decision and support you? You are their child, after all.
An abortion seems like a traumatic thing to go through, and for the sake of it being "a few months too early"? Either way, just have a serious think about what *you* want, because it's a serious decision, and a one you shouldn't make when you aren't completely sure of what you want. I'm sure your parents will support your choice, even if they don't like it. It would be unbelievably cold of them not to. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck!:)
Is it normal to feel this way about my pregnancy?
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An abortion is an awful thing to have to go through, even if that's the only thing the person wants to do. You sound like you want to keep the baby, so if you do have an abortion, then do you not think you will regret it massively? I can't imagine that's an easy thing to get over either.
When my sister got pregnant, no-one was thrilled; she was 16, she'd have to leave her job, etc. She decided to keep the baby, although several people suggested that she get an abortion. When people realised she was very serious about keeping the baby, they had to deal with it. Soon enough everyone was really excited, and everyone is so happy that she decided to keep him, because my nephew is just the most wonderful person. I don't know your family, but if you stand your ground, is there a chance they will accept your decision and support you? You are their child, after all.
An abortion seems like a traumatic thing to go through, and for the sake of it being "a few months too early"? Either way, just have a serious think about what *you* want, because it's a serious decision, and a one you shouldn't make when you aren't completely sure of what you want. I'm sure your parents will support your choice, even if they don't like it. It would be unbelievably cold of them not to. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck!:)