Is it normal to feel this way about a stranger?

There is a man in my local town, who owns a very small, but fascinating gothic/alternative shop, full of trinkets and jewlery and clothes and books and things. It's one of those shops you can spend hours in, looking at everything.

This man, to me, is very attractive. That, combined with the fact that whenever I go into the shop to buy something, we've only had very small conversations. He looks very mysterious, with his long hair and dark eyes, and always wearing black. I am also gothic myself. The shop is always empty and atmospheric when I go there, with eiree music playing in the background. All of this resulting in me being abseloutely fascinated with him. He is so beautiful. Over the past year and through occaisional visits to the shop, Iv'e developed a 'crush' on him. Although, to be honest, I don't really know him at all. All I know is his name, and that he is Italian, and his vioce and accent is amazing. HE is amazing...

Is It Normal?
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  • i wish i saw this thread 1st onestly thats why ive been such a dick on here today.

    i was going throw the same thing at my work with this chick i liked but today her bf came in i don't know if it was her bf but they where close you could tell

    i realised i was stupid to care about someone i dont even know that much i cant help it though

    i dont know what too do

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  • But I am gothic. Reading/writing poetry, wearing black/victorian style clothes/jewlery, listening to gothic/metal/classical music isn't gothic? Don't tell me I'm a 'wannabe' because you don't even know me...

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  • You do have a BIG crush. Thats all it is right now. I think you definitely should talk to him and ask him out if you are so enticed by him. Worth a try than not doing anything about your crush! ....I mean really whats the worst thing that can happen when you ask him out!!!!

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  • Uhm, are you like retarded?
    It's a crush.
    How is it abnormal to have a crush?
    I'll tell you what's abnormal, people that think their goth when they aren't.

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  • Ooh that makes me hot

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  • Ask him for coffee or give him ure number find ways to get to know him more he seems like a real Dish

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  • It sounds like a normal crush but you shouldn't pretend to have any deeper feelings for him if you don't even talk to him.

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