Is it normal to feel this low after doing so well

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Well in the last year I have lost 7 stone... I still have about 4 to go.... Recently I have become very low... I hate myself I feel disgusting and I've had thoughts of killing myself... I wouldn't do that of course but at the moment I hate myself so much.... If feels like I've done all this hardwork but it's not good enough for some members of my family... They have said things like my bridesmaids who are slimmer then me will show me up.... I should be feeling happy and confident after loosing the weight but I feel worse about myself then when I was bigger... Just feeling like a fruit loop ATM x x

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    Be proud of what you've achieved. Don't let your brain convince you to sabotage all you've achieved by giving up and going on a binge. It's quite common to do the opposite to what we really want and you've a wedding to look forward to :o) You want to look your best and I suspect that if your family are also overweight then they are jealous of you.

    You go girl! Wish I could lose 7lbs!

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  • UNSCLoneStar
    11 years ago | pl

    It's normal

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago | pl

    FORGET WHAT YOUR FAMILY THINKS!!!!

    I'm happy that you realize you're accomplishment, but you shouldn't let your family determine your attitude towards your own body. Furthermore, you shouldn't compare your body to other people, not everyone has an hourglass figure. However, it's great to compare yourself to yourself. You lost 7 stones, thus you are slimmer than you were awhile ago, which is great. Don't listen to your family and their judgments. Focus on your well being not how your image affects them. Live your life to please yourself not others.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago | pl

    Are you taking pictures? Get a second opinion.

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