I can understand how you feel in this situation, but you have to understand too that men and some women look at pornography as a form of fantasy and not something that they particularly want in real life. It is a bit unnerving at first, but you have to realize that he loves you (why else would he be with you?) and don't allow this sort of situation to lower yourself or create any self-esteem overall. Leave the insecurities at the door. I'm pretty sure in real life, he wants you and not those big ass titties (let's be honest)! Most people think they want the fulfillment of something they never had, but in actuality they really don't.
What I would suggest though, if it bothers you at all that he leaves the history up is to tell him, "Hey, make sure you clear the history before you get up from the computer because I don't want to know what goes on when I'm not around."
IIN to feel terrible after discovering fiance's porn of large boobs?
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I can understand how you feel in this situation, but you have to understand too that men and some women look at pornography as a form of fantasy and not something that they particularly want in real life. It is a bit unnerving at first, but you have to realize that he loves you (why else would he be with you?) and don't allow this sort of situation to lower yourself or create any self-esteem overall. Leave the insecurities at the door. I'm pretty sure in real life, he wants you and not those big ass titties (let's be honest)! Most people think they want the fulfillment of something they never had, but in actuality they really don't.
What I would suggest though, if it bothers you at all that he leaves the history up is to tell him, "Hey, make sure you clear the history before you get up from the computer because I don't want to know what goes on when I'm not around."