You need to learn how to drive a wedge between your husband and his mother through passive aggressive tactics (if you aren't a straight forward kind of person which it sounds like you're not). Make her hate you and use your kids as leverage against your husband. You are the matriarch and it's your family, not hers.
My problem is im to nice to say no i feel bad saying no because he would happily see them every day , like we did when i gave birth to willow, but its to much for me im close with my family bit i dont need to see or speek to them every day they do not know every detail of my day to day life, i just feel that its going to drive a wedge between us and im already getting moody with him with things like where ive been up all night with my little girl and just want to go to bed early he will say oh mums comming up, Things like that annoy me he knows how tired i am then i have to sit talking to her while hes talking away with his dad, and i be polite and do it but im just sat there thinking will you just go away so i can go to bed.
Is it normal to feel suffocated by mother in law
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You need to learn how to drive a wedge between your husband and his mother through passive aggressive tactics (if you aren't a straight forward kind of person which it sounds like you're not). Make her hate you and use your kids as leverage against your husband. You are the matriarch and it's your family, not hers.
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My problem is im to nice to say no i feel bad saying no because he would happily see them every day , like we did when i gave birth to willow, but its to much for me im close with my family bit i dont need to see or speek to them every day they do not know every detail of my day to day life, i just feel that its going to drive a wedge between us and im already getting moody with him with things like where ive been up all night with my little girl and just want to go to bed early he will say oh mums comming up, Things like that annoy me he knows how tired i am then i have to sit talking to her while hes talking away with his dad, and i be polite and do it but im just sat there thinking will you just go away so i can go to bed.