Is it normal to feel strong urges hate and violence towards my sister?

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Sometimes I feel awful urges of hate, anger, and violence. Like about an hour ago my sister and I got into an argument. She called me a "little hoe" so I jumped up and pushed her down on the ground really hard and made her spill her drink everywhere. I then yelled that I hate her and I wished she were never born, which was very untrue. Sometimes I say things without even thinking about them or meaning them. There have been other violent outburts between us. What should I do? Do I have some kind of disorder?

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  • Curious2know
    13 years ago

    I used to get very angry (maybe violent 1 or 2 times) but the cause was negative thoughts in my mind. I was constantly imagining myself getting angry and fighting and imagining the whole confrontation and backandforth dialogue with the person I was mad at. This made the situation much worse then the reality.. and would escalate real life situations. LIke bitterness and resentment. Eventually I built a habit of dismissing negative thoughts before I could get into them. I built a habit of focusing on the positive and reviewing the good points instead. Now I am very calm and happy. I have more friends. Life is brighter. It's ALL THE POWER OF THOUGHT!

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  • run4life
    13 years ago

    don't use violence because you will use it with your own kids. and that's bullshit.

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  • jen
    13 years ago

    me to but dont meant it

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  • runnergirl
    13 years ago

    This is normal for children who have not yet developed self control. No big deal until you're over 18 or so and you still say things in anger you don't mean. Some adults still do this and it is abusive and serious. But you still have time to grow out of it and work on it.

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  • chrissie
    12 years ago

    When I was a kid I said really harsh stuff to my sister, as for her, me. I really advise you to stop now though. I am lucky because me and my sister forgave each other and became close again.

    Some people are not as lucky as we were though. I know a lady and her and her sister have terrible grudges on one another. They haven't spoken to each other since she was 17. she is 24 now. Saying mean stuff to people can really change the outcome of your relationship with that person.

    I know you don't mean anything, but honestly I would stop.

    Really, good luck with everything. (:

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  • ZOR69
    12 years ago

    Sounds psychotic. Strongly suggest to seek professional help before you hurt someone, or yourself. God bless!

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  • PieIsYummy
    13 years ago

    YOU ARE WEIRD

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