Many people live an apathetic existence from young ages and sometimes for their entire lives. You may just be realizing now because you are losing the security of your mother and her wishes. Though remember these are hard economic times and you say you cannot support yourself or even take care of yourself and I am not sure how old you are, but that might be why your mother is stressed and unfortunately for you, not coping with it? If I were you, I would try to consider the important things family have been for you and cherish them. Many in this world are apathetic because they have no parents and haven't since yonug ages. As I have been in a similar situation to you many times, my advice would be to let your mum know that you understand her own emotion, take the initiative to first consider her daily routine, what emotions she had during the day, what the stimulations are of them, and find a way by this to help her know that you care, respect and want to make her proud. You may be surprised at how warm and satisfying that can be; when I was emotionally the way you describe you are, I had to realise adulthood is self survival and along with that comes the understanding of how hard it must be for parents.
Is it normal to feel so apathetic about everything that benefits me
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Many people live an apathetic existence from young ages and sometimes for their entire lives. You may just be realizing now because you are losing the security of your mother and her wishes. Though remember these are hard economic times and you say you cannot support yourself or even take care of yourself and I am not sure how old you are, but that might be why your mother is stressed and unfortunately for you, not coping with it? If I were you, I would try to consider the important things family have been for you and cherish them. Many in this world are apathetic because they have no parents and haven't since yonug ages. As I have been in a similar situation to you many times, my advice would be to let your mum know that you understand her own emotion, take the initiative to first consider her daily routine, what emotions she had during the day, what the stimulations are of them, and find a way by this to help her know that you care, respect and want to make her proud. You may be surprised at how warm and satisfying that can be; when I was emotionally the way you describe you are, I had to realise adulthood is self survival and along with that comes the understanding of how hard it must be for parents.